How Do I Convince My Husband To Stay With Me? I Would Do Anything To Make My Husband Stay Married.

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are desperate for some sort of plan to make their husbands stay with them.  Often, the husband has suggested a break, separation, or divorce.  This is usually the last thing that the wives who write to me want. I recently had a wife say, in part: […]

Should You Tell Your Husband You Want Him To Call Off The Divorce?

By: Leslie Cane: Wives sometimes contact me when their husband has asked for (or has already filed for) divorce. The vast majority of them don’t want for the divorce to ever go through. But they are unsure about the best way to stop it. Sometimes, while this process is still new, they’ve started to get […]

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Thanks for visiting my site.  You may have read my articles on the web or you may have found me from http://isavedmymarriage.com.   However you found me, I’m glad you’re here.  I’m attempting to put my past (and present) work in one place.  You can see a list of all posted articles on the right hand […]

3 Tips For Saving Your Marriage When You’re Separated

Saving your marriage when you’re separated can be an extremely difficult juggling act. On the one hand, you don’t want to appear so desperate and needy that you scare your spouse away, but you don’t want to back off so much that he thinks you’re letting him go or he moves on without you because […]

How Do I Reconnect With My Husband When My Marriage Is In Trouble And I Want To Save It?

I recently heard from a wife who told me that she knew her marriage was in real trouble.  Over the past six months, she had felt her husband become more and more distant.  He had been spending more time at work and less time with her.  They hadn’t been having sex regularly, rarely had any […]

I Lied To My Husband And Now He Wants A Divorce: How To Save Your Marriage When You’ve Lied To Your Husband

by: Leslie Cane: I recently heard from a wife who told me that her husband had firmly told her that he was “sick of” her lies and was considering a divorce. The wife had to admit that the husband was extremely justified in his frustration. In truth, the wife had lied to him early in […]

My Husband Feels Like A Stranger To Me. What To Do When You Don’t Know Who Your Husband is Anymore.

by: Leslie Cane: I recently received correspondence from a wife who was feeling increasingly distant from her husband. Over the past few years, she had noticed some changes in him. And, these were changes that she didn’t like all that much. She told me that her husband used to be easy going and laid back. […]

How To Restore The Closeness In Your Marriage

I’m very commonly asked how to restore a feeling of closeness in your marriage.  The other day, I heard from a wife who told me that she was extremely troubled because she no longer felt close to or intimate with her husband.  For a couple of years now, she’d noticed a troubling distance growing between […]

My Husband Wants A Divorce, But I Still Love Him. What Can I Do?

by: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who are trying to change their husband’s mind about the divorce. Some common comments that I hear are things like: “He wants the divorce but I still love him and don’t want to be without him.” Or, “He’s filed for divorce. I still love him and want […]

Will I Regret It If I Get A Divorce? Here’s Some Things To Think About

I often hear from people who are at a cross roads in there marriages. By the time they contact me, things usually aren’t going very well at all. Much of the time, since they don’t know what else to do, they are considering just throwing in the towel and getting a divorce. But the idea […]