How Do I Apologize To My Husband Before He Files For Divorce? How Do I Get Him To Accept My Apology?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are gearing up to make a last-ditch effort to save their marriages after they’ve made a huge mistake. Many times, they are looking for the perfect magical words and phrases to tell their husband how sorry they are and to reassure him that things are going […]

Would I Be Happier Divorced? Would I Be Better Off And More Content Single?

By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes, I hear from wives who are at their wit’s end.  They aren’t happy in their marriage and this is affecting other areas of their lives.  They worry that their unhappiness is affecting their children, their job, their friendships, and their own sense of well being.  And many don’t know how much […]

My Husband Left Me. How Can I Get Him Back And Make Him Think It’s His Idea?

I often hear from wives whose husbands have left them either in a fit of anger or because the marriage is no longer “working” for the husband.  Sometimes, he says he needs some “space” and he isn’t sure if he will come back or not.   Other times, he leaves with the intention to move forward […]

When Is It Time To Stop Trying To Save Your Marriage If You’re Miserable And Unhappy?

by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes get correspondence from people who confess that their marriage has been “unhappy,” “stale,” or “unfulfilling” for quite a while. And, most have hung in there because they had hoped things would get better or because they were opposed to a separation or divorce. But after a while of being miserable […]

Why I Don’t Think It’s Ever Too Late To Save Your Marriage

by: leslie cane: I often hear from wives who are worried that they’ve waited too long (or not done enough) to save their troubled marriages. Many tell me that they think too much time has passed before they tried to make any positive change so they worry that there’s really nothing they can do to […]

My Husband Left And Says He’s Probably Not Coming Back. But He Can’t Say That He Doesn’t Love Me

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from women who are so confused because on the one hand, their husband is saying that he wants to leave or get a separation or divorce. But, on the other hand, he’s still eluding to the fact that he still loves his wife. The wives aren’t sure how to […]

3 Signs Your Marriage Might Be In Trouble Or Heading For Divorce (Both Inside And Outside Of Your Marriage)

by: leslie cane: I often hear from wives who tell me that they suspect that their marriage is heading for divorce. However, sometimes when they approach their husband about these concerns, he either gets angry, denies that anything is wrong, or changes the subject. Many of these same wives know that they themselves would never […]

My Husband Won’t Communicate With Me: Tips And Advice That Might Help

I often hear from wives whose are desperately trying to get their husbands to open up and start talking.  Often, the lack of communication in their marriage has gone on for so long that it’s become a real problem. Unfortunately, many people don’t try to address this lack of communication until it is too late […]

My Husband Admitted He’s No Longer Attracted To Me. What Now? Know That Attraction Isn’t Always About Looks

By: Leslie Cane: Recently, I heard from a wife who was devastated. Her husband had sat her down and very matter of factly told her that he no longer found her attractive. He told her that this was a big problem because he felt that he needed to be physically attracted in order to remain […]

My Husband’s Job Loss (And The Stress From It) Is Hurting Our Marriage So Bad We Might Be Headed For Separation Or Divorce

By: Leslie Cane: I’ve started to get a lot of emails from people whose spouses have lost their jobs in today’s economy. Often, this eventually puts a huge strain on the marriage even if the couple had a very strong relationship before the job loss. Even when the spouse who is still working is quite […]