Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane: Probably sixty percent of the conversations that I have about saving marriages are from wives who are facing the very real reality of an imminent divorce. Almost all of them want to save their marriages and aren’t ready to throw in the towel just yet. They want to know: if their husbands […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I love hearing from or reading about folks who figured out deceptively simple but extremely effective ways to save or re-ignite their marriage. Even better, many of these methods don’t require much money – or even tons of time or effort. I’m going to share a few of these brilliant hacks in […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I recently heard from a wife who was devastated because her husband had just consulted a divorce attorney and was obviously considering a divorce. When she tried to talk to her husband about the way that she felt and the fact that she desperately wanted to save her marriage, the husband just […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives want to know when it’s too late to get their husbands back. Some tell me that, in their minds, it is too late because their husband has seemed to “move on.” I often hear comments like “We’ve been separated for six months. I think my husband has started seeing someone […]

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By: Leslie Cane: The other day, I spoke with a concerned wife who expressed fears about the state of her marriage. She reluctantly admitted that she was contemplating whether it was time to just give up.  She described a situation where communication between her and her husband had broken down, leading to constant arguments. She […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Few wives who read this blog think “good riddance” when it comes to their husbands’ unhappiness. Usually, either the husband has left or has hinted that he is getting ready to do so and this breaks the wives’ hearts because they are not yet ready to give up on their marriages. They […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are dealing with husbands who have decided that they want to be “free” and are going to pursue a separation or a divorce. The husbands will typically offer all sorts of broad excuses – such as they felt that the “responsibility” or “lack of freedom” in the marriage was suffocating […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many people who read this blog feel sure that their marriages are over. To that end, one of the most typical issues that comes up is a wife who is being told that her husband is no longer attracted to her. And she worries that this means the end of everything. She […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Separated wives sometimes ask me if their husbands might feel any regret for initiating the separation. I believe that it depends on the situation. Some separated husbands can and do feel regret. But what many separated wives don’t think about (or don’t anticipate) are the regrets that they, themselves, might feel. Because […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many separated wives can’t wait for the day when they can move back in with their husbands. After all, separation is lonely. And the uncertainty of an unknown outcome isn’t a fun way to live.   I know that I felt that way. My husband was mostly not receptive to me for the […]

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