How Can You Work on Yourself During Your Separation When Your Husband’s Receptiveness Waxes and Wane or He’s Hot and Cold?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives who read my articles know that I believe one of the best ways you can help yourself during your marital separation is to make the time work for you by working on yourself. By that, I mean practicing extreme self-care and doing the things that make you happy, help you […]

How to Reignite Your Marital Relationship by Taking Strategic Baby Steps When Your Husband Wants Out

By: Leslie Cane: If you’re reading this, you’re probably dealing with a not-too-pleasant time in your marriage. You might be facing separation, divorce, or a marital break. Fortunately, I believe (from my own experience) that there are some strategic things you can do to save your marriage from the brink of disaster. And I’ll discuss […]

I’m So Afraid I’m Going to Lose My Husband And My Marriage- Tips and Advice That May Help

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are beside themselves when they feel their husbands slipping away. Many cannot help but notice their husbands’ attention, commitment, and affection are waning. Some have felt this shift for quite some time, but when many of these wives attempt to discuss this shift with their husbands, they find that he’s […]

We Don’t Love Each Other Anymore But We Don’t Want a Divorce – What Now?

By: Leslie Cane: Most people going through a separation know that it’s common for there to be one spouse who does not love or is not “in love” with the other. Usually, you have one person who is sure they still love their spouse, while another is claiming not to feel anything anymore. Sometimes though, […]

What Works and What Doesn’t When Trying to Save Your Marriage – How To Prioritize Feelings Over Fixing

By: Leslie Cane: If you’re trying to save your marriage, chances are that you’ve either already tried many strategies – or are considering them. And that’s understandable. Because it often feels like if you do nothing, then you have zero chance of getting any positive results. When I was facing a divorce, I spent tons […]

The Things that Make a Husband Fall Out of Love With His Wife and Want a Separation or Divorce

By: Leslie Cane: Many husbands lament that they’ve “fallen out of love” with their wife. Many times, this lack of love leads to a husband who wants a separation or divorce. Often, the wives affected by this are looking for a way to get their husband to love them again. The answer to this concern […]

Why Does My Separated Husband All But Refuse to Communicate With Me? Here are Some Possible Reasons

By: Leslie Cane: Many separated wives are very focused on communication. Many of them realize that they’ll need to eventually improve their communication to save their marriages. So they may reach out often or aggressively try to talk to or text their spouse. Unfortunately, they’re often rebuffed, and they do not understand why. One of […]

Tips for Making Your Husband Love You Again When You’re Facing a Separation or Divorce 

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives intuitively know when they are facing separation or divorce. They can deeply sense that their husband is no longer happy, invested, or participating in the marriage. Many of them are desperately looking for ways to restore intimacy, closeness, and affection, but they wonder if any of these goals are possible.  […]

Tips for When You Feel Like You’re Marital Separation is Going All Wrong

By: Leslie Cane: I wish I could tell you that most people have a seamless marital separation where they begin communicating more effectively and conclude that they want to stay together after all. I wish that were true. But it isn’t. Instead, many people have messy separations. They have the kind of separation where they’re […]

Would Some Time Apart or a Separation Make Him Love Me Again? What is the Best Way to Do This?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are looking for any successful way to save their marriage or make their husband love them again. Many have tried counseling, talking things out, or spicing things up. But seemingly, very little of these things have worked well enough. So, many wives explore the idea of a separation or at […]