I’m Always Worrying During My Marital Or Trial Separation

I hear from many wives who are suffering from self-defeating thoughts during (or about) their marital or trial separation. Perhaps the separation isn’t going as planned. Perhaps it is taking longer than anticipated. Whatever the reason, many wives become discouraged early in the process and begin to worry and ruminate. Here is an example. Someone […]

I Am The Least Important Thing In My Separated Husband’s Life: Tips That Might Help

Many separated wives are hoping that their husbands will miss them during the separation and therefore experience some important revelations. For example, many wives hope that he realizes that he has taken her for granted. Instead, some find that their husband seems to care less than ever. A wife might say, “we’ve been separated for […]

My Separated Husband Wants Nothing To Do With Me. How Do I Get Him Back If He Doesn’t Call Or Come Around?

By: Leslie Cane: There are many difficult situations one must navigate during a marital separation. Here is a common one: You been asked to give your husband space. You know that you should comply. However, once you do, how will you ever reconcile? If you rarely see him and no one is calling or visiting, […]

The Magic Of Keeping A Journal During Your Marital Or Trial Separation: Free Prompts To Get You Started.

I have gone into great detail about how I got through my own marital separation, so I won’t repeat that here. But one invaluable tool was a simple journal. I have kept a journal off and on since I was a child, so journaling comes pretty naturally to me. However, some additional suggestions from a […]

My Spouse Left Me. Will He Grieve? Because I Am Grieving.

Many newly separated wives find themselves bitterly alone. Understandably, these wives feel a profound sense of loss. Some had a warning that their husband would leave. Others did not. Regardless of whether you were able to brace yourself, having your spouse leave can be unsettling and devastating. I remember those dark days very well. It […]