I Don’t Even Know How To Have A Conversation With My Spouse During Our Separation

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from folks who know that they need to reestablish an easy rapport and good communication during their marital separation, but they are having problems successfully doing this. Every time they try, the conversation feels forced. Or something goes terribly wrong and they say something unfortunate that they very much […]

My Husband Left Me And Now He’s Feeling Free

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who are feeling very vulnerable and unsure after their spouse has left their home. This is a difficult situation to begin with. But, it can be even more difficult when it appears that your spouse is happier for having left you. This can make you question if […]

We Are Attempting To Reconcile. But The Old Problems Keep Resurfacing

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who had such high hopes for their reconciliation. It is usually something that they have been waiting on (and hoping about) for quite some time. So when this doesn’t go as seamlessly as they had hoped (and there are significant challenges along the way,) this can be […]

I Told My Husband I Want A Divorce And He Doesn’t Seem To Care:

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who have used the threat of a divorce in an attempt to get some sort of reaction out of their spouse. They may well be actually considering a divorce. But they are also very interested in gaging their spouse’s response. And, deep down inside, they my be […]

If Your Marriage Feels Fake, Is It Time To Leave Your Spouse Or Move On?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who say that they no longer feel any real intimacy in their marriage. They often describe it as going through the motions or feeling as if they are putting on an act. They feel as if their marriage might look one way from the outside but be […]

How Do I Stop Caring About The Things My Husband Does?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who have been dissatisfied with habits of their husband and issues in their marriage. They may have even tried to change things but were met with a great deal of resistance. After a while, when nothing changes, it can be tempting for the wife to begin to […]

My Husband Says Not To Wait For Him After The Separation

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who feel as if their spouse is trying to discourage them during their trial separation. Often, they are trying their very best to remain optimistic and to hold out hope that things are going to eventually work themselves out. But, this can be very difficult to maintain […]

What Should You Do When Your Husband Isn’t In Love With You Anymore?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who have been given the very devastating and shocking news that their husband is no longer in love with them. Needless to explain, this hurts. And this can leave the wife so sad and shocked that she isn’t sure of her next course of action. Despite this […]

Can A Separation Save My Marriage?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are willing to try just about anything to save their marriage – even things that they might have considered to be quite drastic measures just a short while ago. Sometimes, this includes considering a separation. And the reason that this comes up is because often times, […]