By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who have decided with complete certainty that they want their spouse back and they want to save their marriage, (despite the fact that they are now separated.) Often, it feels somewhat good to be so sure about this and to make a firm decision. Unfortunately though, saving […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who, with a very heavy heart, are finally telling themselves that it might be time to move on from their spouse or from their separation. This is often not a decision that they have made lightly. Often, they make this decision when they feel as though they […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from couples who are confused (and a little upset) as to why they always seem to get along better when they are away from their spouse. Quite often, they fight or have continuous conflict when they are under the same roof. But when one of them has to travel […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who feel as if they need to make some pretty drastic changes in order to save their marriage. Sometimes, they want to change what they feel is the stimulus or situation that is causing the problems in their marriage in the first place. And, there are times […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from folks who are having second, third, and even fourth thoughts about leaving their spouses. At the time that they left, they felt reasonably certain about their choice. But once they’ve been away for a while, they start to miss their spouse desperately and they begin to second guess […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who have heard a very difficult truth from their husbands. He’s now claiming that he is no longer in love with her. But after dropping that bit of bad news, he’s assuring her that he’s going to stay either because of the children or because of his […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from folks who had initially hoped that a trial separation would help to give them some clarity about their marriage. Often, the hope is that the time apart will allow them to see that perhaps things weren’t so dire. Unfortunately, this clarity doesn’t always come. Sometimes, the separation only […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who are at the point where they’ve been threatened that the only way that their marriage is going to stand a chance is to agree to go to counseling. Often, the frustrated spouse who wants the counseling has asked for this multiple times in many different ways. […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who don’t quite understand why their spouse wants to file for a divorce. They often firmly believe that there is a still a lot of love between them. In fact, they often believe this so deeply that they force an admission out of their spouse. Still, their […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are very clear (and remorseful) about the fact that the big contributing factor to them separating from their spouse is a lack of trust. Often, one spouse has done something unfortunate and significant enough for the other to lose trust in them, which has led to […]
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