By: Leslie Cane: Regardless of the specific circumstances, many wives who reach out to me are a bit panicked. Even wives whose husbands have just begun to mention “wanting space” envision a future that may include a divorce. But the wives who have a husband who has just filed divorce papers are understandably the most […]
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By: Leslie Cane: If you are a wife, hearing your husband confess that he is unhappy can be extremely hurtful. But hearing him say that he has not been happy in your marriage for years is potentially devastating. And this proclamation can make you wonder if he was pretending for parts of your marriage. How […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives in troubled marriages believe that if they can just get their husbands to commit to working together to save the marriage, then all their troubles will be solved. After all, if both spouses join forces and are motivated to make it work, how can they fail? The problem is that, […]
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By: Leslie Cane: My grandmother always told me to choose a man on whom I could count when the roof was leaking and the kids had a cold. “Good looks are of no use when your toddler has a fever and the mortgage is due,” she’d caution when I developed the habit of chasing a […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who tell me that their husband is starting to show signs of a mid life crisis. Sometimes, he exhibits silly and troubling behavior like trying to dress hip, getting a new car, or getting what he thinks is a hip new hair cut or way of speaking. […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I hear about many different types of marital problems from people who visit this blog. From infidelity to money issues, to differing personalities, many couples feel that their issues are unique and that they need a very complex plan (and a lot of luck) to fix them. I would never tell anyone […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It’s very frustrating when your spouse seems to make a very abrupt decision about your marriage and then tells you that there is nothing you can do to change his or her mind. It’s doubly frustrating when you suspect that your spouse is being advised by someone who doesn’t know you, or […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who are getting ready to start a trial separation. Most of the people who contact me never wanted the separation in the first place. Usually, they are just trying to comply with their spouse’s wishes. Sometimes, their spouse has made it clear that a separation is going […]
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By: Lesle Cane: I find it interesting that there is often a perception that differing personalities spice up a relationship early on, but hurt that same relationship once it has become a long-term marriage. In other words, it’s sexy when young opposites attract, but it’s a problem when those same people have been married for […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Some wives want to be faithful and patient while they are waiting for their separated husband to come back home. They hope that if they don’t pressure him and try to be supportive, he will eventually appreciate this and come back. But a wife might have this concern: “my husband left me […]
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