My Husband Says That He Doesn’t Feel The Same Way About Me As He Used To, But Still Loves Me

By: Leslie Cane:  I sometimes hear from wives who are extremely hurt because their husband has admitted that his feelings for them have changed.  Sometimes, he admits that he no longer feels the same way that he used to.  Often, the husband will insist that he still loves his wife, but he will make a […]

Trial Separation Tips: How To Best Handle The Marital Trial Separation When You Want To Save Your Marriage

By Leslie Cane:  I often hear from people (usually wives) who are trying to successfully navigate a trial separation.  Many go into the trial separation as a last resort in the hopes that this will save their marriage rather than hurt it.   I often have wives email me and ask me for some tips on […]

My Husband Left Me And Now He’s Acting Like We’re Just Friends

By: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from women who are very upset about how their husband is acting during a marital separation.  Often, their husband will attempt to distance themselves a bit or will act friendly but not loving.  In response, the wives will wonder if this means he’s beginning a new life without his […]

Can I Save My Marriage If My Husband Is No Longer Attracted To Me?

By: Leslie Cane:  This is a very common concern.  Sometimes, the wives who contact me about this just suspect that their husband isn’t attracted to them anymore.  They notice that he doesn’t initiate contact or want to have sex nearly as much.  Or, he rarely (if ever) compliments them on their appearance anymore.  Sometimes, he […]

Powerful, Nonintuitive Tactics to Get Your Husband Back

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes tell wives that very often the most powerful tactic to getting your husband back is doing those things that work but don’t feel intuitive.  It’s not necessarily thinking about what you want to do and then doing the opposite, but often the things that feel right at the time are […]

My Husband Wants Me To Leave Him Alone During Our Separation

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who feel very lonely, isolated, and vulnerable during their trial or marital separation. Often, the husband had assured the wife that the separation was going to work one way, but the wife is finding that it is now working in an entirely different way. I might hear […]

How Do I Get My Husband To Pay Me More Attention Without Being Needy And Demanding? His Inattention And Apathy Are Hurting Our Marriage.

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives desperately want more of their husband’s undivided and loving attention, but they aren’t sure how to ask for or inspire this behavior. Understandably, these wives are afraid of appearing needy or nagging if they approach their husbands about their desire for more attention.  A wife might say, “I’m almost embarrassed […]

For How Long Should I Wait For My Husband To Come Back Before I Move On With My Life?

By: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from wives who have long been discouraged about their husband coming back home.  Many had high hopes in the beginning, but those same hopes are fading fast today.  It can be difficult to be patient when you’re seeing no real progress and no end in sight. I heard from […]

How Do I Make My Husband Love Me Again During Our Separation? How To Pull Him Closer When You Feel Him Pulling Away.

By: Leslie Cane: If the martial or trial separation was never your choice, then the chances are good that you are looking for any way to end it and to carry on with your marriage.  Many people suspect that one very efficient and effective way to end the separation is for their spouse to come […]

Trial Separation Success Stories: What Many Of Them Have In Common

By: Leslie Cane: When you’re separated and looking for any type of hope that you can still save your marriage, you’re often on the look out for success stories of people who have been able to accomplish this.  At least I know I was.  You hope that you are not trying to accomplish the impossible.  […]