My Husband Says He Loves Me But He Needs Space. How Can These Two Things Coexist?

By: Leslie Cane: It can be extremely confusing and upsetting when you have a spouse who you know loves you and who admits as much, but who at the same time is telling you that he needs space or that he wants a separation from you. Some spouses want to try “having space” before they […]

My Husband Gets Angry When I Try To Talk To Him About Our Trial Separation: I Just Want To Know How It Would Work And He’s Evasive. Why?

By: Leslie Cane: When your spouse starts talking about a trial separation, it is perfectly natural, (and understandable,) to want as many details as you can possibly get.  After all, it is pretty obvious that your life is going to change dramatically.  Because of that, you want specific details, so that you can prepare yourself […]

I Think I Have Some Regrets About Leaving My Spouse And Pursuing A Separation, But I’m Not Sure They Are The Right Ones

By: Leslie Cane: Most of the folks who reach out to me are reluctantly-separated spouses. By this I mean that the ones who reach out are usually not the ones who pursued or wanted the separation in the first place. They are typically the spouse who desperately wants to save their marriage and who are […]