My Husband Left So I Guess We Are Separated. Should I Try To Make Him Jealous?

By: Leslie Cane: I think it’s pretty fair to say that wives who are separated and trying to save their marriage are often willing to do just about anything to make this happen.  It’s a cliche that “all is fair in love and war” but when you are staring a divorce right in the face, […]

My Husband Says He’s Leaving Me “To Think.” What In The World Does He Need To Think About?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives whose husband has left them “because he needs some time to think.”   That’s pretty much the extent of what he tells the wife. Rarely does he go a little deeper and offer up an explanation as to just what “thinking” actually means. Understandably, the wives are not satisfied […]

How Do I Deal With The Uncertainty Of Whether My Husband Will Come Back After Our Trial Separation?

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who are struggling to deal with a trial separation.  Many aren’t sure how they are supposed to be acting or feeling.  They also aren’t sure whether their husband is ever going to come home or commit to working on the marriage.  This uncertainty can be extremely hard […]

My Husband Wants To Leave Me. Should I Let Him?

By: Leslie Cane: I am most often contacted by wives who are looking for a way to stop their husband from leaving or going through with a separation or divorce.  Some are willing to do absolutely everything in their power to stop him from walking out the martial door.  But, as they are carrying this […]