By: Leslie Cane: When you are separated, communication with your spouse can be very confusing. After all, when you lived together and your marriage was on track, you likely never had to think about when or how you’d communicate. If your husband was in the room and you needed or wanted to talk to him, […]
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By: Leslie Cane: In today’s fast-paced world, patience is a virtue that is quickly becoming rare. Because of new technology that is changing and improving all of the time, we get information almost instantaneously. We are always working, taking in new information, and processing that same information at a feverish pace. And yet, there is […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Some spouses are very open and honest when they are unhappy and considering a separation. And when these spouses eventually ask for a separation, there is no big surprise, although there might be a lot of disappointment. Many will tell you that having this kind of warning is a double edged sword. […]
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By: Leslie Cane: When you’re separated and struggling to get your husband to respond to or communicate with you, him actually reaching out to you can feel like a cause for celebration. Having your husband say “we need to talk” can feel like a fantasy come true. It may be what you’ve been waiting for […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It’s natural to want to see your separated spouse more often and in a more meaningful way. However, if your husband is the one who initiated the separation or the one who wanted space, then it can feel very scary when you ask to see more of him. You can be afraid […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It’s an awful feeling when you have to watch your marriage ending and know that it is at least in part your fault. It’s even harder when you know that you could change things if only given a chance. But you don’t know if you will ever get that chance. Since it […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It’s normal to over analyze nearly everything when you are separated but do not want to be. This is especially true if you were hoping for a quick resolution but you now suspect that things aren’t going as well as they could. It’s human nature to be absolutely sure of the situation […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes, when you have done everything that you can do to ask your spouse to change, you feel as if you have to do something much more drastic to finally get results. When you’ve begged, pleaded, and tried to reason and it hasn’t worked, you feel like there’s no cards left to […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I find that, as we age, the things that initially attracted us to other people can sometimes change. For example, when I was younger, I valued money and material possessions in my friends and the people who I wanted to date. If a guy had a nice car, that scored a few […]
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By: Leslie Cane: In a perfect world, your spouse would be your biggest cheerleader. He is the one who should lift you up and defend you against all others. When you’re feeling bad about yourself or have doubts, he is the one who should tell you that you are more than fine just the way […]
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