Many husbands who initiate a separation are fairly confident about their wives’ level of commitment during it. After all, it is the husband who wanted to separate in the first place. Since many wives don’t want any marital break, we often assume that the wife will cling to her marriage for dear life, and there […]
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Sometimes I hear from wives who refer to their separated spouses as “runaway husbands.” I can’t help it. I always get a weird mental picture from this phrase. I picture a grown man with a knapsack thrown across his shoulder, slinking away in the dead of the night. I suppose “running away” is a phrase […]
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If you are dealing with a martial separation, chances are that you probably are not at your personal best. What I mean by that is that someone is more likely to seek separation if they are personally struggling than if they are on top of their game. So it makes sense that many people will […]
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I believe that many wives have this fantasy that any time they mention the “d-word,” their husbands will fall over themselves and argue to stay together. Unfortunately, this is not a reality for many of us. Some wives have husbands who are indifferent and who will tell you that if you want to pursue a […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are not yet separated, but who worry that a separation may occur in the future. Many of these wives can feel their husbands’ interest and affection slipping away. One of them might say something like this, “my husband and I actually became closer when we became […]
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This is the time of year when we all look around and evaluate how we live our lives and invest in our relationships. This is the season of resolutions and sweeping improvements. So it is no wonder that January is the time of year when many of us focus on our unhappiness with our marriage […]
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By: Leslie Cane: You might think your New Year’s Resolution is unique. After all, millions of people vow to lose weight, make more money, or get organized. But how many resolve to save their marriage or get their spouse back? This resolution probably isn’t as rare as you assume. Since marriage is among our most […]
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It’s usually a good idea to try to set some ground rules before you begin your trial or marital separation. Having a clear understanding of what is going to happen can help you avoid misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Unfortunately, it’s common for each spouse to have a very different perception of “ground rules.” Usually, the […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many people feel intense worry when they are considering a trial separation. What if this is the wrong decision? What if the separation pushes you toward a divorce that you don’t want? Is there another alternative that you haven’t explored? These are all very valid questions. As someone who separated myself (although […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It’s not uncommon for people facing a trial separation to seek out statistics on the same. It’s normal to want to know what you are up against. People want to know if separation is usually a precursor to divorce or if the process actually helps most of the couples who attempt it. […]
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