Is There Anything That You Can Do When Your Husband Wants A Divorce But You Don’t: Here’s Some Strategies To Try

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who are completely reeling after their husband has announced that he wants  – or plans to seek – a divorce. For many women, those words hit like a punch to the gut. They tell me things like, “I tried to talk him out of it. I reasoned […]

My Husband Thinks I’m Too Clingy And That I Hold On Too Tight, But I Feel Him Slipping Away

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are completely heartbroken because their husbands have started using words like “space” or “distance.” Often, he’ll even go further and say that he feels “smothered” or “suffocated.” In plain terms, he thinks his wife is being too clingy. If you’ve ever heard those words from your […]

Tips For When You Aren’t Sure If Your Husband Still Loves You

by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who quietly admit, “I’m afraid my husband doesn’t love me anymore.” Others tell me, “He acts like he just doesn’t like me,” or, “We live together, but it feels like we’re miles apart.” If this sounds familiar, please know you’re not alone—and that your fears, while painful, […]

When the Husband Wants a Divorce But the Wife Doesn’t

By: Leslie Cane: I hear from so many wives who tell me that this is exactly their situation. They still love their husband. They don’t want to give up on the marriage. But unfortunately, their husband feels differently. Sometimes, he’s already talking about divorce. Sometimes, he says he no longer loves her. Either way, she’s […]

Should I Stay In A Loveless Marriage? Here’s How To Decide

by: Leslie Cane: I hear from a lot of people who tell me they are struggling with whether they should stay in their “loveless marriage.” I’ve found that loveless can mean very different things depending on the couple. Sometimes, it means there is no longer physical intimacy. Other times, it means the passion and affection […]

I Feel Like I Love My Husband More Than He Loves Me. What Can I Do?

by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who worry that they love their husbands far more than their husbands love them. Sometimes, they even measure this love by degrees. For example, I might hear something like: “I love him on a level eleven, but he only loves me on a level one. I’m always […]

I Wish I Still Loved My Husband, But I Don’t Think I Do. What Can I Do When I’m Not Sure

by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who admit something very difficult: they’re not sure they still love their husbands the way they used to. One woman recently told me, with tears in her eyes, that she wished she felt differently. Her husband hadn’t done anything wrong. In fact, she described him as a […]

Should You Get A Divorce When Your Marriage Isn’t Working

by: Leslie Cane: Once, I heard from a woman who told me that her marriage “just didn’t work” for her anymore. She explained: “My marriage used to make me happy and made me a better person. But now it just makes me angry and bitter. I don’t like the person I become when I’m around […]

My Husband Admitted He Doesn’t Love Me Like A Man Should Love A Woman. Now What?

By: Leslie Cane: I recently heard from a wife who was just devastated. She told me that during an argument with her husband, she had blurted out: “You act like you don’t love me anymore.” His reply shocked her to her core. He said, “That’s because I don’t.” Later, once things had cooled down, she […]

What’s The Best Strategy When A Husband Requests Space? What’s The Best Call?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who feel completely panicked when their husband asks for “space” or “time apart.” Their minds immediately go to the worst-case scenario: If I give him this space, what if he likes it too much? What if it leads to separation or even divorce? Those are very normal […]