By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who will tell you that they are willing to do just about anything to save their marriages. Many of them are technically separated and living apart. Others have agreed to give their spouse “space.” Either way, most wives desperately miss their husbands and want to find some […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It can be very painful when your spouse suddenly wants space from you, or, even worse, a separation. But the pain is intensified when you realize that at least some of your spouse’s complaints are legitimate and that it may be too late to make things right. One example is when your […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It may surprise you to learn that one of the most common topics that I am asked about is a spouse that doesn’t make the other spouse feel special or understood. The older I get and the more life and relationships that I experience, the more I realize that the need to […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many separated wives intuitively know that it is in their best interest to remain positive, especially if they want to save their marriage. So they try to maintain an upbeat, hopeful attitude. But this can be difficult when you face a husband who answers you with negativity at every turn. A wife […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It may not feel like it at the time, but getting your husband to agree to not moving out when he wants a separation can truly be a victory. It is much easier to gradually work on your marriage when you have access to your husband. (And gradual movement can be very […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many separated wives visit this blog because they are looking for a plan that allows them more access to their separated husband. Unfortunately, many are dealing with a man who makes himself unavailable or who is taking his demand for space literally. Some wives worry that the only common denominator that they […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many separated wives complain that their husbands ignore or tune them out during the separation. Worse, the husbands who are willing to engage often do so in negative ways. They argue or engage in bickering and debates. Understandably, many people want tips on how to talk so that their separated spouses might […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are very disappointed in their husband’s changing behavior while they are on a trial or martial separation. Sometimes, things have even been going extremely well and then suddenly, things change for the worse. I heard from a wife who said: “my husband and I mutually agreed […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Regardless of the specific circumstances, many wives who reach out to me are a bit panicked. Even wives whose husbands have just begun to mention “wanting space” envision a future that may include a divorce. But the wives who have a husband who has just filed divorce papers are understandably the most […]
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By: Leslie Cane: If you are a wife, hearing your husband confess that he is unhappy can be extremely hurtful. But hearing him say that he has not been happy in your marriage for years is potentially devastating. And this proclamation can make you wonder if he was pretending for parts of your marriage. How […]
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