Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who worry that they are doing everything wrong during their marital or trial separation. Many still very much want to save their marriages, but they are afraid that they are going to make the wrong move or take the wrong step and make a divorce that much […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Wives who are in a troubled marriage – or even those who are separated and on the verge of divorce – have many recurring fears. But one of the most common fears is the fear of regret. Many of them intuitively know that the loss of an important relationship like marriage could […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many separated wives have a list of strategies that want to try to get their husbands to come back once he’s left for a break or separation. Many of them hope that this experiment of him being away will be short-lived. They hope that their husband will quickly see that being on […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from folks who feel as if their spouse is not at all being themselves during a marital separation. And while it is understandable that a person would be a little off while they are going through a difficult or painful separation, it can sometimes be obvious that the spouse’s […]

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By: Leslie Cane: If you’ve found this article, I have to assume that you sense that something is going very wrong in your marriage. Perhaps you feel that the closeness you used to enjoy with your spouse is slipping away. Or maybe your husband has been vocal about not being happy in the marriage anymore. […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I honestly believe that one of the biggest landmines that separated wives face during their separation is rumination filled with negative or catastrophic thinking. This is especially true of wives who very much want to reconcile, but who keep getting in their own way. Often, these wives are fully aware that they […]

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By: Leslie Cane: If you’re separated from your spouse, you’re likely well aware that you may not be able to fully and confidently reconcile until you restore the intimacy and comfort level between you. But this can be a tall order when you aren’t living together and when things feel a little awkward and delicate […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are faced with a situation where they can feel their husbands pulling away. Sometimes, he even discloses that he’s thinking about a separation or divorce. Understandably, many wives in this situation immediately want to pull their husbands closer in response. But they often find that this strategy just doesn’t work. […]

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by: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from wives who are at the point where they’re willing to do just about anything to prevent a divorce or separation.  And many have already tried numerous and various things which haven’t worked so far.  So, sometimes they come to a point where they intuitively know that it’s now […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Some wives know exactly when their husband is moving out for a trial separation, and other wives are surprised when he does. But, in both scenarios, most of the wives are incredibly sad and overwhelmed. No one envisioned this detour in their marriage, and it can be very difficult to focus on anything […]

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