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I recently heard from a wife who was desperate to save her marriage but who had a very difficult situation on her hands.  Her husband had made it very clear that wasn’t happy in the marriage and he was pushing for a separation.  In fact, he was pushing so hard that he told the wife […]

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By: Leslie Cane: When you are separating, you often fear what your husband will do and who he will see while you are apart. Of course, you know there is a real possibility that he will see someone else. After all, you’re no longer living with him and you can’t keep constant dibs. So you […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I know from experience that one of the things that takes up most of your thoughts when you are separated is wondering whether or not your husband still loves you. To that end, you almost become detective – like, always looking for clues that might indicate that, although you are separated right […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many people are surprised when they start having sex with their separated spouse. They’d assumed that sex would be off-limits or that it would be forced, awkward and bad. They may be pleasantly surprised to find that the sex is not only a bit more frequent, but it’s good.  One of the […]

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By: Leslie Cane: It’s probably not a surprise to anyone that emotions run high during a marital separation. It can be quite an adjustment for both spouses, and therefore, people can be unsure as to how they feel or what they want. But that doesn’t mean that some people aren’t still invested in saving their […]

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By: Leslie Cane: The economy isn’t great for most people right now. Inflation is up. Food prices are through the roof, and the cost of housing is at an all-time high in many places. Plenty of couples are struggling to support one shared home. The current financial situation can pose challenges to couples who might […]

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By: Leslie Cane: It’s always a huge plus when separated parents give their kids unlimited access to both parents during a separation. Being able to spend adequate time with both parents can make the transition a bit easier and can be reassuring for kids. Therefore, most separated wives are very relieved when their husband comes […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Most people expect that their marital separation will take some adjustment. There will likely be times when you are unsure, scared, and discouraged. That is to be expected. But not everyone expects seemingly everything to go wrong. Some people have so many unfortunate events during their separation that it begins to feel […]

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By: Leslie Cane: It can be normal for couples to back away from daily, one-on-one interactions when they are separated. After all, the idea was to take a bit of time and space and to later regroup and see where things stand.   Unfortunately, some spouses can take this to the extreme. They grow radio silent, […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Some wives are pleasantly surprised to find that their separated husbands are more receptive than they feared during their marital separation. Despite any fears, he accepts calls, occasionally reaches out, and isn’t opposed to sometimes spending quality time together. Sometimes, he even talks about the future. This all sounds really great – […]

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