Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane:  Many wives are extremely confused by their husband’s actions since he has left them.  Often, they expect for him to be happy or to show a sense of relief since he was the one who set this whole thing into motion. But sometimes, the opposite happens.  Sometimes, it becomes quite obvious that […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes, women try to determine the implications of their husband leaving. Often, they wonder what this means for their marriage.  They worry that this might mean that they are separating or divorcing in the near future. A wife may have these concerns: “I knew that things weren’t great in my marriage, but […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives have no idea what to make of what their husband is telling them when it comes to his feelings toward and distance from them.  Quite often, he is contradicting himself or saying things that do not make a lot of sense, or at the very least show very little consistency. […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives feel as if they cannot win with their husbands. Most feel that they are a good spouse, friend, and partner. But their husband often does not seem to agree. A wife might comment: “I am just not sure what my husband wants or expects from me. The other day, he […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives who are overwhelmed at their husband’s latest assertion that he’s no longer in love with them. Often, these wives feel as if their whole world has stopped spinning on its axis. They aren’t even sure how to process this, much less to react to it. And coping? Well, that’s about […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many people want clarification on the logistics of a trial separation.  Unfortunately, there’s no manual to tell you how this should work or what you should be doing.  Many people still hold out hope for their marriages even though they are separating temporarily.  To that end, they often know that they should […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  Often, people separate because they hope that the time apart will help to make the course of their marriage more clear.  The hope is often that one or both of the spouses will realize that they miss one another and really do want or need to stay together.  But, this hope doesn’t […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  Wives can be very disappointed that their marital separation is not going as well as they might have hoped.  Many had anticipated that the separation would make their husband miss them and, as the result, would bring them closer together.  However, unfortunately, sometimes the opposite happens and the wife finds the distance […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  There are people who are having a hard time living together, but who don’t want to live apart.  Still, despite this reluctance, they realize that something has got to change because they have become very unhappy living together and the situation has become difficult, if not unhealthy. Someone might explain: “my marriage […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  Many wives are having a very difficult time coping after their husband has left them to pursue a trial separation.  They often aren’t sure how to constructively fill their time.  And they can find themselves always thinking about and dwelling on their husband and on their marriage.  Time seems to stand still […]

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