Is Saying, “I Miss You,” During A Marital Separation Wrong?  What’s The Right Way To Tell Him?

By: Leslie Cane: Many of the people on this site did not want to separate from their spouses. Therefore, most people here desperately miss their separated spouse. But they aren’t sure what to do with those feelings. Should they share this information? Or keep it bottled up? After all, isn’t it a good bet that […]

I’ve Changed My Mind About The Divorce. Is It Too Late To Tell Him Now That He’s Moving On And My Time Is Running Out?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives who visit this site very reluctantly even consider divorce. Most want to save their marriages, so they only agree to divorce when it seems clear that there is no path forward. Often, it is actually the husband who wants a divorce, and the wife only consents when it is clear […]

My Husband Looks Right Through Me And Doesn’t See Me. He Doesn’t Value My Worth, And It’s Jeopardizing My Marriage. 

By: Leslie Cane: If there is anything that I’ve learned from writing about marriage and interacting with folks struggling in their marriages, it’s this: One of the most vital human needs is to feel seen and heard. And if you don’t feel seen and heard by the most important person in your life – your […]

I Thought My Husband Would Change His Mind About The Divorce. It Seems I’ve Gambled. And I Might Lose.

By: Leslie Cane: Although many of us dread the worst happening when we separate or concede to giving our spouse “space,” or “time,” most of us really want to believe in a happy outcome. In our heart of hearts, we want to believe in happily ever after and in families that find a way to […]