By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who want to believe in their hearts that there is still a chance for their separated marriage. However, their husband isn’t nearly as optimistic and he will sometimes try to convince the wife that she should just accept that there may not be a reconciliation. Often, the […]
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I sometimes hear from people who are considering a trial separation. Sometimes, one spouse wants to separation much more than the other. And the spouse who is reluctant about the separation wants to make it as short as is possible. People seem to intuitively know that the longer a separation lasts, the less the chance […]
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I hear from a lot of people who are trying to get their marriage back on track. Many of them are dealing with a spouse who is very resistant. However sometimes, they are their own worst enemy. I know this because I was my own worst enemy when what I wanted more than anything in […]
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By: Leslie Cane: There are certain behaviors that wives start to notice when they suspect that their husband has begun to check out of their marriage. One example is when he is no longer interested in making sure that the home runs smoothly. Perhaps he used to take an interest in household maintenance (even if […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from folks who know that they are at a crossroads in their marriages. They are well aware that neither themselves nor their spouse is happy. They look around and they perceive that their marriage is “less than” that of friends, family members, or associates. So they start to wonder […]
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There seems to be a perception in some people that for many marriages, it is one catastrophic event that ends things. People assume that it is things like adultery, a job loss, or money struggles that doom your marriage. While these things do sometimes happen, it is just as common for a marriage to break […]
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Many people intuitively know that it’s best to attempt to agree about several upcoming aspects of a martial or trial separation. However, knowing and doing are two different things. You can know that it’s optimal to set guidelines or boundaries and still be unsure about how to broach this topic or which boundaries are most […]
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I’ve had people ask me if bird nesting is a good solution for a couple who feels the need to try a marital separation. These couples are focused on making life easier for their children. To be clear, bird nesting is a situation where the parent who is caring for the child at the time […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Often, there’s a period of time in your marriage where you know that a separation could be just around the corner. During this time period, you and your husband can kind of circle one another. Both parties can feel that one of them is going to make the move to leave. The […]
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