How Do I Make My Spouse Understand That The Woman Who Had The Mid Life Crisis Wasn’t The Real Me?

By: Leslie Cane: I get a lot of correspondence from spouses who are trying to understand and have patience while their spouse goes through a mid life crisis. Many of them do not understand why their spouse would seemingly change over night. And they worry about whether these changes are going to be lasting and […]

My Mother Says That My Separated Husband Isn’t Ever Coming Back And Will Divorce Me

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are determined to still hold out hope for their marriage, even in the face of a marital separation. This isn’t as easy as you might think. People sometimes think that holding onto hope is as easy as telling yourself that this is all mind over matter. […]

If I Play Mind Games To Get My Husband Back, Will It Work?

By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes, after wives have tried what they think are the conventional routes to get their husband back (trying to figure out their problems, asking him to come back, trying to reason with him, etc.) then they can start to believe that they are going to have to completely get away from straight […]

I’d Like To See Other People During My Separation In Order To Help Me Evaluate If I Still Love My Spouse

By: Leslie Cane: Regardless of who initiated the separation, both spouses can deep down wonder if there is still love between them. And even if you never wanted the separation in the first place, you can figure that the least that you can do is to use the separation as a way to gage if […]