How Can My Spouse Prove That He’s Serious About Reconciling?

By: Leslie Cane: Some separated spouses have more than one attempt at a reconciliation. It would be wonderful if your good intentions were all you needed to successfully reconcile. But for many, this is just not the case. Sometimes, one of the spouses changes their mind – which is very painful for all involved. And […]

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What Happens If One Spouse Has A Birthday During A Marital Separation?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from folks who are going through a marital separation. This often brings about a slew of questions about etiquette and the correct or appropriate way to act. Couples often have marital habits and traditions and they aren’t sure how to approach these things when they are separated. One example […]

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I Have No Idea Why My Spouse Is Still With Me

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from folks who are grateful that their spouse has stuck with them during difficult times. They realize that they should count their blessings as far as their marriage is concerned. But many are concerned that at some time in the near future, their luck is going to run out. […]

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We Are Separated And My Spouse Is Acting Like An Immature Child

By: Leslie Cane: It’s very common to be annoyed by your spouse’s behavior during a marital or trial separation. After all, you’re likely been watching his behaviors very closely and deeply analyzing them. And this is probably because you are looking for clues as to what your husband might do next or as to how […]

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How Do I Stay Strong After My Husband Left Me?

By: Leslie Cane:  Even women who consider themselves independent and self sufficient can struggle after their husband leaves them or initiates a marital separation.  You don’t know what tomorrow will bring, you’re lonely, you’re scared, and you’re often feeling abandoned.  But, you usually can see that when you act in the way that you are […]

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I’m Trying To Reconcile With My Spouse But I’m Not Sure About My Feelings Anymore

By: Leslie Cane: Often, when you are separated but still invested in your marriage, a reconciliation is all that you can think about. That reconciliation can seem like the end of the rainbow or the end goal that requires that you overcome countless obstacles. Many people figure that if they can somehow just get to […]

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My Husband Left And Says He’s Not Ready To See Me Yet

By: Leslie Cane: It’s very normal to want a quick resolution after your spouse leaves you or pursues a separation. I know first hand that it feels as if your world has been turned upside down. Nothing feels routine anymore and you can’t focus on any task at hand because your marriage and trying to […]

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My Husband Just Texted Me That We Are Separated

By: Leslie Cane:  When your spouse has communicated that he’s unhappy and may want some time apart, often your greatest wish is to have the time to change his mind.  You hope that you will know when it is coming and that, if it becomes a reality, he will sit you down and explain it […]

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My Husband Says He Wants A Divorce But He Hasn’t Filed

By: Leslie Cane: When your spouse tells you that he wants a divorce, many people assume the worst. Some picture themselves living as a single person or a single parent in the not too distant future. So, when after some time their spouse has not yet filled for divorce, it can be very confusing for […]

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My Separated Spouse Has Told Our Friends Where He Lives, But He Won’t Tell Me. He Says He Loves Me But Trying To Save Our Marriage Is A Waste Of Time

By: Leslie Cane:  A marriage or trial separation is painful and frustrating to begin with, but it can be doubly so when you don’t have enough information about your spouse to feel informed.  An example is when you aren’t sure where your spouse lives because he won’t share this information with you. A wife might […]

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