Should I Act Happy When My Husband Leaves Me?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are looking for the best way to position their behavior once their husband leaves them or pursues a separation. Many are fully aware that their husband is going to leave relatively soon. And they are wondering what is the best way to respond. Many know that they should not panic […]

Should I Reconcile With My Husband? Here’s Some Things To Think About

By: Leslie Cane: People who are estranged or separated from their spouse can be unsure if this is going to be a permanent situation or if they should attempt to reconcile and try to make things work. This can be a difficult decision because no one can see into the future. You have no way […]

Will My Husband Move Fast On The Divorce? Or Am I Just Panicking?

By: Leslie Cane: Many women wonder how long they truly have to change their husband’s mind about the divorce that he has recently filed. Often, they want to know how long it takes for a divorce to become final so that they will know how long they have to carry out any reconciliation plan. A […]

If My Husband’s That Unhappy, Why Doesn’t He Just Divorce Me?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are beyond frustrated that their husband is moping around the house and putting his unhappiness on full display. Often, he seems unwilling to do anything about this and the wives often wonder why he would be willing to be so unhappy rather than attempt to change […]

How Do I Convince My Husband That I’ve Truly Changed After He Left. How Can I Prove It?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives feel as if they were forced to change for good after their husband left them. Often, they were fully aware that the only way to have any chance of him coming back was to authentically change in order to remove the obstacles that were standing in the way of a […]

My Husband Wants To Separate And Date Others To See How It Would Make Us Feel

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are beyond hurt that their husbands have been hinting about separating in order to explore relationships with other people.  In other words, their husband wants to date other women while still being married. A wife might explain: “last week, my husband approached me and said he wanted a separation.  He […]

I Sometimes Think My Family Would Be Happier Without Me. Should I Just Accept The Divorce?

By: Leslie Cane:  Believe it or not, many folks feel as if their marital problems are mostly their fault.  And although they would very much like to save their marriage, they often wonder if this is a selfish desire.  Sometimes, they admit that they think their family might be better off or happier if they […]

I’m Stunned My Husband Admitted He’s Thought About A Divorce. I Thought We Were Happy

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are absolutely shocked that suddenly their husband is admitting that the thought of divorce has crossed his mind. Often, these women will tell you that this is the first that they have heard of such talk. I heard from a wife who said: “last week, my […]

What Things Make A Man Change His Mind About A Divorce?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives very much want to come up with some strategy which is going to change their husband’s mind about the divorce that he now wants so passionately. Many have pondered trying manipulation, jealousy, a surprise pregnancy, or just pleading their case. And many very rightly suspect that these strategies often just […]

Our Marriage Is Inconvenient For My Husband. He Feels Tied Down And Old. I’m Afraid He’s Going To Leave Me

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are struggling to deal with disappointed husbands. Often, the husband has alluded to the fact (or he has come right out and said) that he’s disappointed in the marriage because it isn’t what he was expecting or hoping for. It’s nearly impossible to hear these types of discussions about your […]