I Don’t Understand My Separated Husband’s Behavior

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are confused and upset by the way that their husband is acting during a marital or trial separation. Often, he is acting like an entirely different person and the wife can’t help but wonder what this means in terms of saving her marriage. Someone might say: “my husband represented the […]

I Need Reassurance From My Husband During The Trial Separation, But He’s Not Willing To Give It. What Now?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives were hoping that their trial separation was going to go a whole lot more smoothly than it has.   Often, the husband assures the wife that they will communicate regularly and even “date” one another while they are apart.  But unfortunately, sometimes, this is the promise instead of the reality. […]

My Husband Refuses To Grow Up. He Claims He’ll Change And Act Like An Adult To Save Our Marriage, But I’ve Heard It Before

By: Leslie Cane:  Many people are skeptical about their spouse’s claims that they will make drastic changes in order to save their marriage.  Often, this whole speech sounds very familiar because they have heard it all before.  And this leaves them with more doubt than confidence.  A wife might complain: “For the last five years, […]

Can Your Marriage Be Saved After Your Separated Husband Moves On? Or Should You Move On Also?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives seem almost sure that their husband has “moved on” after the couple has unsuccessfully tried a separation.  They are often at a crossroads and are trying to decide if they should also try to force themselves to move on.  Many are reluctant to do so because they still want to […]

What Things Should I Change To Save My Marriage?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives feel as if they need to make drastic changes in order to save their marriage.  Often, they are willing to do anything necessary if their husband would just give them some direction.  Often, they find themselves guessing as to what changes would have the most impact on turning their marriage […]

My Husband Says It’s Too Late To Save Our Marriage Because He’s Seeing Someone Else. What Now?

By: Leslie Cane:  Sometimes wives feel as if they might be running out of time to save their marriage.  Often, the last thing that they want is to give up, but their husband isn’t completely on board.  In fact, he will often do whatever he can to discourage them that there is any hope left. […]