How Do Men Know They’re No Longer In Love With Their Wives?

By: Leslie Cane:  Many women aren’t sure how their husbands have come to the conclusion that they are no longer in love with them.  Many of these husbands have made this announcement seemingly out of the blue and without any warning.  As a result, the wives are sometimes a bit suspicious of the underlying causes. […]

My Husband Says He Still Loves Me, But Wish That He Didn’t. What Does This Mean?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are very confused about what their husband is saying in regards to his love for them.  Often, the marriage has been struggling and the husband has become a bit distant.  So the wife asks if he still loves her, expecting to get a sweet response or some reassurance.  Instead, she […]

How Can I Make My Husband Come To A Decision About Our Marriage?

By: Leslie Cane: Wives are sometimes frustrated because their husband has told them that he is unsure about the marriage, but he is dragging his feet when it comes to making a firm decision.  As a result, the wife can feel as if her life is on hold. She doesn’t know if she’s going to […]

Why Would A Man Stay Married If He’s Not In Love?

By:  Leslie Cane:  I often hear from women who either believe or know that their husband is no longer in love with them. And yet, he’s still their husband. Usually, at this stage, he hasn’t made any attempts to separate or divorce. And the wife will often wonder why this is so. I heard from […]

My Husband Says If We Separate, He’s Never Coming Back

By: Leslie Cane: Many people are grappling with whether or not they want a separation.  They often are still invested in their marriage but things have gotten so difficult that they wonder if separating or taking a break will improve things.  But, it’s relatively rare for both spouses to be on board with this.  Typically, […]

My Husband Says He Hopes That His Moving Out And Having Time Away Will Help Us. Will It?

By: Leslie Cane: Many antsy husbands will accept nothing less than moving out of the house in order to have some “space” or some time away.  Often, the husband will try to present this as a marriage-saving measure or as something that will actually help the marriage.  The wives can have their doubts about this, […]

My Husband Moved Out To Get Attention. How Do I Respond?

By: Leslie Cane:  Some separated wives question their husband’s motivations for moving out.  Some feel as if he moved out as some desperate attempt to make some grand display in order to get some attention or response. Someone might admit, “my husband has obviously been a little unhappy with our marriage for a while.  He […]

How Can I Make My Husband Regret The Separation?

By: Leslie Cane:  Many wives are quite annoyed that their husband has initiated a marital separation.  I certainly can’t and don’t blame them.  I know first hand that being separated from your husband feels absolutely awful.  It’s a very scary and emotionally volatile time.  It’s natural to be a bit frustrated and angry at the […]

My Husband Wants To Separate Because He Says He Doesn’t Like Who He Has Become

By: Leslie Cane:  Many wives have a husband who is giving them some vague excuse for why he wants to separate.  Sometimes, he will tell you that he doesn’t like the man who he has become while being married or that he feels that marriage hasn’t been good for him.   He will sometimes allude […]

My Husband Left Me And Now He’s Acting Miserable. Why?

By: Leslie Cane:  Many wives are extremely confused by their husband’s actions since he has left them.  Often, they expect for him to be happy or to show a sense of relief since he was the one who set this whole thing into motion. But sometimes, the opposite happens.  Sometimes, it becomes quite obvious that […]