By: Leslie Cane: I hear from wives who indicate that they are doing all of the heavy lifting to keep their marriage afloat or to save it. Many times, a husband will swear that he doesn’t want a divorce and that he’s willing to do whatever is necessary to save or preserve the marriage. But […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I speak with wives who know that their husband wants a divorce because he has either told them of his intentions directly or filed divorce papers. Sometimes though, the panic that they feel about this (especially when they don’t want a divorce) gets a reprieve because the husband one day just stops […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives who feel as if their marriage is in trouble suspect that they aren’t giving their husband what he needs to feel completely happy in the marriage. Sometimes, these unsatisfied husbands will tell their wives exactly why they are so unhappy with complaints like: “I just don’t feel like we’re compatible,” […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives whose husband is telling them that he isn’t ready to come home or commit to the marriage because he fears that he’s done something that has hurt her or his marriage too much. I might hear: “my husband left home about six weeks ago. He admitted to […]
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I sometimes hear from people who are trying to save their marriages, but who aren’t sure if things are going as well as they had hoped. Many people tell me that things feel very awkward or “forced” and they are worried that this means that they are just not going to make it. A wife […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I hear from wives who are trying everything in their power to get their husbands to come back home. And some of the husbands will give the wives every reason under the sun why he can’t come home. Sometimes, these reasons sound a lot like excuses and the wife can begin to […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Most of the time, I hear from wives who are trying to save their marriages because their husband wants a divorce, separation, or break. But occasionally, I hear from wives who were the ones who initiated the separation and they now very much regret that decision. Often, they’re very worried that this […]
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By Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are well aware that their marriage is only hanging by a thread. Many feel as if they are barely hanging on. Sometimes, it’s pretty clear that the husband’s heart isn’t fully in it, although perhaps he has made a commitment to you and your marriage. Sometimes, […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who want to know how to broach the conversation about saving their marriage. And, they want to make sure that when they are having this discussion, their husband is agreeable to what they are saying. No one wants to feel as though they’re speaking to a brick […]
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By: Leslie Cane: One thing that frustrates many wives who are newly separated or taking a husband initiated “break” from their marriage is the husband’s lack of clarity about how things are going to work. The wife often wishes that he could be specific about how things are going to unfold in the days and […]
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