Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from wives who are at the end of their ropes with their husband’s behavior.  Many of them are in a situation where they don’t want to or can’t get a divorce so they know that they are going to be stuck with this person through thick and thin.  But, […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  Knowing the couple I’m about to describe as I already do, I can pretty much picture the scene in my mind.  And since I myself went through the same scene in what seems like another lifetime ago, I’ve felt what I know that the wife is feeling right now.  I can literally […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who are trying to gauge if things are looking positive or hopeful during their separation.  Many will recount details and ask me if they are seeing signs that are good or bad or which might indicate that there’s a better or worse chance that the two of […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are getting pretty tired of the patient and understanding approach when waiting for their husbands to make a decision about the marriage and to come back home. They often begin to wonder if they should change their approach and instead give their husbands a dose of […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from people who are nearly desperate to reconcile their marriage.  Some don’t yet have their spouse’s full cooperation, commitment, or support.  Many believe that if they can just get their spouse on board, then everything else should fall into place.  This isn’t always the case.  Sometimes, both people can […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I get correspondence from wives who are trying to get their husbands to come back home. Sometimes, I hear back from those that were successful in making this happen. Most are thrilled, but a few are not. Sometimes, when a husband finally comes back, it soon becomes very clear that he’s not […]

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by: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from panicked wives whose husbands have just or recently told them that he wants a separation.  For many wives, the “s word” is often akin to proclaiming that the marriage is most definitely over, at least in her eyes.  Many people associate a separation with an eventual divorce and […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who find themselves in an unhappy marriage because their husband is just an unhappy person in general. And, it’s obviously difficult to have a happy or upbeat marriage when one spouse always seems determined to be miserable. I recently heard from a wife who said, in part: […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from wives who have been fed the “I love you but I’m not in love with you” line that many husbands will give when they aren’t sure if they want to be married anymore.  This is a very common topic that comes up time and time again.  Many of […]

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