How To React When You Love Your Husband But He Doesn’t Love You Back: Strategies With The Highest Chance Of Success

By: Leslie Cane: I often get emails from wives who feel that their husbands either don’t love them enough or don’t love them at all.  I hear comments like “he doesn’t love me nearly as much as I love him,” or “I love him very much, but he doesn’t love me back,” or “if only […]

My Husband Left And Says He Doesn’t Want To Be With Me Anymore: Reading Between The Lines To Understand What This Really Means

By: Leslie Cane: I received an email from a wife who told me that she was beside herself because her husband had just told her that “he didn’t want to be with me anymore.”  I had to ask if this meant he didn’t want to be with her sexually, didn’t want to be with her […]

How Do I Make My Husband Love Me Back? This Advice and These Tips May Help You Figure Out The Best Approach

By: Leslie Cane It’s hard to ignore the signs that your husband has checked out of the marriage or is pulling away from you. I get many emails from wives who outline several different behaviors – lack of physical affection, spending less time at home, distancing themselves from the family, being overly critical or her […]

What to Do When Your Husband is Not Affectionate. How To Get Him To Stop Withdrawing

By: Leslie Cane: I often write about saving marriages. Yet, I get a lot of emails from wives who are afraid that their husband’s lack of affection and verbal and non-verbal reassurance is a sign that their husband has “fallen out of love” with them, has checked out of the marriage, or that severe marital […]

How To Reconcile With Your Husband After A Separation By Understanding (And Acting On) The Power Of Distance

By: Leslie Cane: It would be nice if reconciling a marriage was an easy task, with both parties committed and confident that it is possible to work things out. But, this isn’t always the case. Most people who visit my site are wives (and sometimes husbands) who are either trying to save the marriage alone, […]

He Wants a Divorce – Advice For Wives Who Need To Change Their Stance To Set The Stage For Reconciliation

By: Leslie Cane: I receive a lot of emails that go something like this: “Help. My husband wants a divorce and I don’t. I want to save the marriage, but he won’t cooperate. How can I change his mind when he won’t listen to me?” There are a lot of underlying questions within this one. […]

Important Things To Remember When Your Husband Leaves You – But You Want Him Back

By: Leslie Cane: Unfortunately, the emails that I get from wives whose husbands have left are often far from positive and upbeat. The feelings of panic, desperation, and confusion would be evident enough, but since I have experienced this scenario myself, I know all too well how these women feel. It’s a very difficult and […]

My Husband Left Me – Now What? Advice and Tips That May Help You Understand What’s Required To Get Him Back

By: Leslie Cane: It’s very common to fear that when your husband walks out the door and has made it clear that he is exiting the marriage, all is lost. Most wives will assume that this is just the first step of a divorce and the marriage will eventually die a slow death and end. […]

My Husband is Saying He Wants a Divorce – Does it Mean the End of the Marriage? Why It Doesn’t Have To If You Play Your Cards Right

By: Leslie Cane: I often receive comments and emails from wives who tell me that their husband is claiming that he wants a divorce, and the wives want to know if this means the end of the marriage. The answer to this question is going to greatly depend upon the circumstances around it, but I […]

Strategies To Try When Your Husband Wants a Divorce And Is Suspicious Of Your Intentions To Change His Mind

By: Leslie Cane: Unfortunately, the people who typically read my articles are not in the best or happiest of marital situations. Usually, they have or will be faced with talks of divorce and they’re often the spouse who wants to save the marriage while the other wants to end it. I know from experience that […]