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By: Leslie Cane:  Some of the wives that I hear from are trying to get their husbands to “take some time away together” or “to get away” with them on a “romantic getaway” while they are separated.  Many are not completely happy with the way that their separation is going and they figure if they […]

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By: Leslie Cane: When you are first married, you often feel closer to your spouse than anyone else. When something happens in your life, your spouse is the first person in whom you want to confide. When you need support, it is your spouse on whom you want to lean. And this is the way […]

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By: Leslie Cane: It’s very difficult when you are dealing with a spouse who wants a separation at a time when you’re never felt so strongly about saving your marriage. At that time, you’d often give almost anything for him to change his mind. But what if he does change his mind for seemingly no […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who are facing a separation and who don’t necessarily agree with the reasoning that their spouse is offering up. And even if they do see some validity to their reasoning, they often just don’t how to change who or what they already are. Here’s just one example. […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  Many separated wives intuitively know that having their husband miss them is probably the first step toward a reconciliation.  And although many wives worry about this, they hope that their husband will miss them out of habit, if for nothing else.  After all, when someone has been part of your life for […]

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By: Leslie Cane: There’s no question that many of us are not the same person who we were when we met and then married our spouse. This can be particularly true if you have been married for quite a while. And this is because most of us mature and experience things that shape our personalities […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives that confess that their worst fear (and the day that they dread the most) is the time when their husband walks out of their door, bags in hand, determined to leave them or the marriage. It’s no wonder that many of us will do almost anything in […]

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By: Leslie Cane: When my husband finally admitted that he was thinking about leaving me, I can remember saying over and over again: “please just tell me what I did wrong so that I can fix it.” But my husband never seemed to have the answers for me in regards to this. We went round […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Often, even the most optimistic of people who are going through a martial separation know in our hearts that it could very well end in divorce. We’ve all known a couple who began the process with a separation but who eventually filed for divorce and began the process of ending their marriage. […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I know first hand that even when you consider yourself a strong or stoic person, you may feel weak and overwhelmed during your trial or marital separation.  Even if you are typically an optimist who believes that things which are meant to be are always going to work out, you can be […]

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