By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes, a couple’s struggle in their marriage does not have much to do with the two individuals themselves. The issue isn’t that they don’t love each other, aren’t connecting, or can’t get along. The issue centers around the other people who live in the house – namely, the children. This is an […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It’s very common to think that once you are separated, then you might not ever be able to reconcile with your spouse. Many people just can’t figure out how a reconciliation might happen – especially in terms of their marriage. So I might hear a comment like: “my husband is the one […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Having your husband tell you that he wants a divorce is one of the worst feelings that I can possibly describe. You can feel that everything that you valued or worked for is now at risk. You feel afraid. You feel rejected. You feel alone. So when your husband shows any sign […]
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By: Leslie Cane: There is no feeling of helplessness quite like the one you feel when your spouse isn’t sure if he shares your loving feelings. You’re clear on the fact that you love him and that you want to make your marriage work. But when he doesn’t share your certainty, this hurts. I might […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who know that they have played a large part in their marital separation. Although they are not the one who asked for the separation or the one who moved out, their actions put the whole thing in motion and they feel badly about this. They know that […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Every one knows that things change once you have children. You may have thought that you knew what kind of parent your spouse would be. But no one can really know for sure until they witness their spouse’s parenting style in real life. Sometimes, parenting brings a couple closer together because they […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes when you are separated but hoping for a reconciliation, one of the biggest decisions that you will make is how much to disclose to your husband. Sometimes, you may feel very tempted to share your feelings, but you are afraid that this is going to make things worse. You may want […]
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By: Leslie Cane: When your marital separation is approaching its end, then it would be wonderful if you could just enjoy the relief and the happiness that you feel to be reconciling. But this isn’t always the case. Sometimes, people feel both relief and doubt. While they are happy that they have finally gotten their […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who no longer see the same person who they have always loved when they look at their spouse. Many start to believe that their spouse has “let himself go.” They feel that he just no longer takes pride in his appearance or in his health. And this […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It’s normal to want to do whatever is necessary to keep your spouse from pursuing a trial separation. One way that we will often try to do this is to tell our spouse that they are wrong and that they will realize their mistake and come crawling back. (I admit that very […]
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