By: Leslie Cane: It’s normal to try to diminish the impact and devastation of the situation when your husband asks for space. After all, this is a very painful request. No one wants to believe that their husband is trying to limit his contact with them or to distance himself from them. So it’s normal […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I believe that most of us like to think that the deterioration of our marriage would be swift and noticeable. We like to think that it would be an obvious change that we would not only notice, but to which we would quickly react. Unfortunately, this is not always the case. Much […]
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By: Leslie Cane: When you get married, you have certain expectations. Most of us think (and certainly hope) that we’ve found a life partner who will be there to support and love us through all that life might throw at us. We like to think that we are part of united team – where both […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many people find that the period of time just before their spouse comes home after a martial or trial separation is filled with anticipation and anxiety. The anticipation comes because this is the day that you have been working toward. But there is anxiety because you don’t want for anything to go […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Most of the time, when I get correspondence about a spouse with a mid life crisis, it comes from the spouse who is watching the process. The spouse who is NOT having a mid life crisis is usually trying to cope and to keep the marriage intact, while juggling all kinds of […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I get a decent amount of correspondence from wives who have husbands in a mid-life crisis. The wives are understandably worried and concerned. Often, the wives are looking for some way to jolt their husbands out of this. They have often tried to talk to him or debate this, but nothing has […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many spouses who pursue a trial separation wonder if living alone and not dealing with their spouse full-time is going to have any effect on their happiness level. Some are hoping that it does. And others are scared of what will happen if they feel better, happier, or more carefree without their […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Some husbands who want a divorce are willing to take full responsibility for that wish onto their own shoulders. They will tell you that it is them who wants the divorce because of their own unhappiness. They don’t necessarily blame their wife for this. They know that it is their own discontent […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I will admit that many of the articles that I write are geared toward women and wives. This is partly due to the fact that this is the view point from which I’ve lived and from which I’m writing. I am a wife and I went through a separation, so I try to […]
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By: Leslie Cane: In today’s society, verbal talk is being phased out. I am not saying that to be overly dramatic. I am saying that because I firmly believe it’s true. My grandmother and my mother are about the only people I know who don’t have text or email accounts. They pick up the phone […]
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