By: Leslie Cane: Many of us struggle greatly in the beginning of our marital separation. Understandably, we are very distraught and we tend to live in our own world. Or we might mope around our newly-quiet house, and isolate ourselves from those that care about us. This behavior is understandable. We are hurting. This “new […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many separated wives try to follow their husband’s lead or attempt to read their husband’s cues when he has moved out and they are separated. Many wives figure that if they can just provide their husband with what he wants during this very short time, he will eventually return home. That is […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It’s very normal to take one simple truth – that you and your spouse are separating – and turn it into several dire “what ifs.” For most of us, a separation is difficult enough to process. Even if we were able to limit our thoughts to our immediate reality and what is […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Wives who are in the unfortunate situation of having a husband leave during a midlife crisis can become extremely observant – always searching for clues as to what their husband might be thinking or what the future might bring. Most of us can certainly understand this detective-like behavior. After all, the constant […]
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By: Leslie Cane: year or so and have gotten nowhere, so now we can just communicate through our attorneys. This is awful because I really do want to save my marriage. I really did have every intention of going to counseling. But I don’t see how this is going to be possible if he won’t […]
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By: Leslie Cane: In your married life, there are probably very few times when you are watching your husband’s behavior like you may be when he tells you that he wants a divorce (and then seems to be wavering on this.) This can be especially true if you are still invested in your marriage. […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Some of us who have husbands who are unhappy in our marriages are somewhat lucky. That may sound like a contradiction in terms. But with unhappy husbands, it can go one of two ways. You either have a husband who decides that he will work on the marriage or that he will […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Most of us marry our husbands thinking that he is “the one.” Very few of us get married with any back up plan in mind. We simply assume that our marriage is going to be a happy one and, therefore, will be our last. We assume that if we are lucky, we […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who hate the conflict that has cropped up in their marriage. Sometimes, this conflict comes because their husband is exhibiting repeat, troublesome behaviors that cause problems. Perhaps they have tried confronting him about these behaviors. Perhaps they have tried to convince him that he needs to change […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Early in your marriage, you often believe that this relationship is the most important thing in your life. You safeguard it like the jewel that it is. As time goes by, though, sometimes we begin to take our marriage for granted or it can begin to suffer. Over time, there may be […]
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