Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane: I hear from a lot of people – mostly wives, but sometimes husbands too – who worry that they’ve waited too long to save their marriage. They’ll tell me: “It feels like the spark is gone.” Or, “We can’t even talk without fighting.” Or, “My spouse has already moved out. Surely, it’s […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Hearing your husband say, “I don’t love you anymore,” is probably one of the most painful things a wife can experience. Many of the women who reach out to me tell me that those words are still ringing in their ears. Sometimes, the admission comes out during a heated argument. Other times, […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I recently heard from a wife who told me, “I want to write my husband a letter that will help me reconcile my marriage with him. Can you help me?” This couple had been struggling for a while, but things had recently gotten worse. The husband was hinting at moving out and […]

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I can’t tell you how often I hear from people who describe their marriage as “loveless.” Sometimes they mean the spark and chemistry are gone. Other times, it’s about intimacy  – they aren’t having sex anymore. And still others are talking about a lack of connection, affection, or emotional closeness. Whatever the exact situation, the […]

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I once heard from a wife who felt certain that divorce was the only way forward. Interestingly, it had originally been her husband who suggested ending the marriage. At first, she resisted, hoping things would get better. But as time passed and their relationship only grew more tense, she finally agreed to go through with […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I hear from so many people who are floored when their spouse suddenly says something like, “I don’t think I’m in love with you anymore.” It’s such a devastating statement. One woman recently told me: “My husband blurted it out at dinner, almost like he was commenting on the weather. He didn’t […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I get a lot of emails from people who are desperate to save their marriages—especially when the divorce papers are already filed. Often, the spouse who filed wants out, and the one left behind is heartbroken, willing to do almost anything to stop it. They’re trying to buy time to save a […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I once heard from a wife who was in a heartbreaking spot. For a while, her husband had been hinting that he was thinking about leaving. But now he wasn’t just hinting—he was flat-out saying that he planned to walk out the door within a couple of weeks. She had asked him […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I recently heard from a wife whose husband had told her that he wanted a divorce about six weeks before.  The husband had not yet filed for divorce.  He told the wife that he wanted to wait until the summer when the kids were out of school.  He didn’t want for the […]

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By: Leslie Cane: One of the most common emails I get from readers goes something like this: “My husband used to be affectionate, but now he barely touches me. He says he loves me, but it feels like we’re roommates.” It’s heartbreaking. And confusing. Especially when the spouse who’s pulling away insists nothing is wrong. […]

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