By: Leslie Cane: Many separated husbands make it clear that they want real change in their wife or in their marriage before they return home. Understandably, many of these wives (myself included) are willing to do whatever it takes to make these necessary changes. Because isn’t this a small price to pay in order to […]
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by: Leslie cane: I recently heard from a wife who just wasn’t sure what to do. Her husband had left her and the home the week before and now was not accepting her calls, texts, or emails. Anytime that she did get him on the phone, placed herself in front of him, and had his […]
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by: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who want step-by-step instructions on how to repair their marriage. Often, they know that some change needs to happen, but they just don’t know where to start. And, they are afraid of doing something that is only going to make matters worse. Many tell me they think […]
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By: Leslie Cane: When your marriage is feeling strong enough to survive, inequality within it is sometimes bearable. You may put off addressing not feeling like your spouse’s equal in the hopes that it gets better. However, if you are separated, you might see this imbalance a little differently. You may think that it needs […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I’ve noticed that in the last couple of years, we’ve seen a lot of buzz phrases from couples who are trying to figure out the direction of their marriage with as little drama and pain as is possible. You may hear phrases like “conscious uncoupling” or “peaceful separation.” People are often confused […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are not privy to how their husband feels during a trial separation. Often, he doesn’t exactly lie to you, but he keeps his feelings to himself. There are various reasons for this. Sometimes, he suspects that his wife is going to analyze everything that he says so it is just […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives know that their lives may change significantly when their separated husband moves out. This can be scary and unsettling. As a result, many wives intuitively know that they should try to make this process easier. So they seek a sense of control over their living arrangements. Therefore, some wonder if […]
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By: Leslie Cane: If your spouse is pushing for marital separation and you don’t want this, it is safe to say that you have many concerns about the same. There may even be a precedent in your marriage where you and your spouse talk openly about whatever concerns and issues come up. However, when it […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes, when a husband announces that he wants a separation, he will let many unpleasant realities slip out. He may reveal hurtful secrets. He might say the marriage was a mistake or that he chose you based on attributes other than love. For example, sometimes a husband might admit that he chose […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many couples attempt a trial separation instead of divorce in part because of their children. Many realize that the ideal situation means that children grow up in a home with both loving parents. Of course, this isn’t always possible. And many healthy, happy, and well-adjusted people have divorced parents. But, couples understandably […]
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