Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from women who are very upset about how their husband is acting during a marital separation.  Often, their husband will attempt to distance themselves a bit or will act friendly but not loving.  In response, the wives will wonder if this means he’s beginning a new life without his […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  This is a very common concern.  Sometimes, the wives who contact me about this just suspect that their husband isn’t attracted to them anymore.  They notice that he doesn’t initiate contact or want to have sex nearly as much.  Or, he rarely (if ever) compliments them on their appearance anymore.  Sometimes, he […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes tell wives that very often the most powerful tactic to getting your husband back is doing those things that work but don’t feel intuitive.  It’s not necessarily thinking about what you want to do and then doing the opposite, but often the things that feel right at the time are […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who feel very lonely, isolated, and vulnerable during their trial or marital separation. Often, the husband had assured the wife that the separation was going to work one way, but the wife is finding that it is now working in an entirely different way. I might hear […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives desperately want more of their husband’s undivided and loving attention, but they aren’t sure how to ask for or inspire this behavior. Understandably, these wives are afraid of appearing needy or nagging if they approach their husbands about their desire for more attention.  A wife might say, “I’m almost embarrassed […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from wives who have long been discouraged about their husband coming back home.  Many had high hopes in the beginning, but those same hopes are fading fast today.  It can be difficult to be patient when you’re seeing no real progress and no end in sight. I heard from […]

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By: Leslie Cane: If the martial or trial separation was never your choice, then the chances are good that you are looking for any way to end it and to carry on with your marriage.  Many people suspect that one very efficient and effective way to end the separation is for their spouse to come […]

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By: Leslie Cane: When you’re separated and looking for any type of hope that you can still save your marriage, you’re often on the look out for success stories of people who have been able to accomplish this.  At least I know I was.  You hope that you are not trying to accomplish the impossible.  […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from wives who are very anxious to get their husbands back during a trial or marital separation. Often, they truly are doing the best that they can. They are trying to stay strong and trust the process. But they usually miss their husbands terribly and they are terrified that […]

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By: Leslie Cane: By the time most people get around to emailing me, their marriage has typically been in trouble for a while. It’s so easy to just ignore the problem and hope that it will go away until it reaches a point where you can no longer do that. It’s often only then that […]

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