Unhappy Marriage But Not Ready For A Separation Or Divorce? Try These Exercises First

By: Leslie Cane: Since I often write about saving your marriage, I’m sometimes approached by people who want help fixing or escaping their “unhappy marriage.” Most of them don’t want to blow up their lives, but they also have to admit that they’re quite unhappy. Still, they cared enough to seek information that might help […]

When Will Things Be Normal Again With My Separated Spouse?

By: Leslie Cane: No matter how your separation is going, chances are you wish it would end tomorrow. Even separated wives who know that they are fortunate to have husbands who are in regular touch still miss their old lives. It’s no wonder that one of the top questions among separated wives is when things […]

My Separated Husband Admitted That He Still Cares For Me, But He Won’t Be With Me. Why Would He Ignore His Feelings And Refuse To Be Together?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who’ve actually gotten good news but are still quite discouraged. Their separated husband has admitted that he still cares for or even loves them. But the wives feel that it doesn’t matter because, despite all of this, the husband doesn’t want to be together. He’s claiming that […]

Three Things You Need When Trying To Save Your Marriage (Even If You’re The Only One Who Wants To)

by: Leslie Cane: If you’ve found this article, chances are your marriage isn’t as stable as you’d like it to be. Or perhaps your spouse isn’t as happy as needs to be and has therefore hinted about a separation or divorce. Either way, you likely know that your marriage needs a serious shakeup. I can’t […]

Is It A Good Idea To Be Friendly With My Husband During The Trial Separation? Am I Too Available?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who aren’t sure what their relationship should be with their separated husband. On the one hand, they are thrilled to continue to be close, cordial, and friendly. On the other hand, they have well-meaning folks telling them that they’re too nice or too accessible.  As an example, […]

What Does It Mean When Your Husband Needs Time To Think?

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives whose husbands have been asking for “time to think.” Sometimes, the husband is content to continue to live in the same home while the wife backs off a little bit and gives him some time on his own. But other times, the husband feels that he either […]

How To Reach Out To Your Separated Husband When He’s Not Communicating.

By: Leslie Cane: One of the biggest concerns that separated wives have is communication. These wives know that it will be nearly impossible to reconcile without healing communication. But they are often dealing with a husband who is not as receptive as desired. The husbands typically don’t want to communicate as often as the wife […]

What Not To Do When Your Husband Leaves

By: Leslie Cane: I get quite a bit of correspondence asking for advice on how to handle it when your spouse leaves, especially when you want them to come back. It’s just as important to understand what you should not do in this situation. The reason for this is that doing and acting in the […]

My Husband Doesn’t Care About My Feelings So I Think I Want A Divorce.

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives feel like they aren’t an equal partner in their marriage because they don’t have an equal say. Some feel that their husbands care more about his own feelings than theirs. One of these wives might explain: “my husband is so self-centered. He only thinks about his own feelings and himself. He […]

Can A Fresh Start Avoid A Marital Separation? Can You Start Fresh When You Are Separated And Want To Save Your Marriage?

By: Leslie Cane: There are many strategies that couples might try when it feels like they’re treading water with their marriage. Often, they will first sincerely try to work through their issues. Unfortunately, this can be a tricky and/or gradual process. So couples can become impatient or frustrated. That’s why it’s understandable that a “fresh […]