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By: Leslie Cane:  I sometimes hear from wives who are experiencing very conflicting emotions as it relates to their husband, who had filed for divorce and then changed his mind.  On the one hand, they are grateful that he has changed his mind.  Because often, they didn’t want a divorce and could only watch helplessly […]

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By: Leslie Cane:   I sometimes hear from wives who are saddened by the boundaries that their husband is trying to set in anticipation of a trial separation.  Often, the wife is hoping that the separation will actually improve the marriage so that a reconciliation is eventually possible.  But the husband can be very obviously […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I sometimes hear from wives who are both happy, relieved, reluctant, and worried all at the same time.  They are happy because it appears that their husband might be considering coming back to them or at least “trying again” after the separation.   But, they are worried because they know that the marriage has […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  You would like to think that when you are going through a very challenging time in your life – like dealing with a marital separation, for example – that the people in your life would limit themselves to only providing positive feedback and support.  There has never been a more appropriate time […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Most of the wives who read this blog will have, at least in some capacity, a spouse who wants or has asked for space. Sometimes, this is just a temporary and casual request that passes quickly. Other times, there is a real and immediate problem, which can prompt time apart or even […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who have only agreed to a trial separation because it’s what their spouse either wanted or insisted upon.  They don’t have any intention of making the separation permanent or of allowing things to deteriorate so badly that the separation eventually leads to a divorce.  But, they know […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many of the people who read this blog try to begin their separation with the best attitude possible. They often either intuitively know or have read here that remaining positive increases the chances of a healing separation and a reconciliation. So they try to go into this with a smile on their […]

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By Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from panicked folks who worry that their trial separation is going to mean that they can’t save their marriage. They are often concerned that since they are no longer living with their spouse, they aren’t going to have the access required to improve their marriage enough so that it […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear for wives who are looking for the strategy or plan that is going to make their husband want to come back to them. Sometimes, the husband has abruptly left after a fight. Others have left after long struggles within the marriage and the departure doesn’t come as huge surprise. […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from wives who are devastated to learn that their husband wants a separation.  And, they often know that how they behave and react right now might have an impact on whether their marriage will survive the separation.  So, many are looking for advice on the right way to behave […]

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