Is There Any Way To Stop My Husband From Divorcing Me?

by: Leslie Cane: I hear from so many wives who are either staring at divorce papers on the kitchen table or sensing—deep in their gut—that those papers are coming soon. And overwhelmingly, these women do not want their marriages to end. They want another chance. They want a path back. They want a husband who […]

My Husband’s Saying He’s Going To Leave

by: Leslie Cane: I once heard from a wife who told me that almost any time she and her husband hit a snag in their marriage, he pulled out what she called the “leave card.” She said, “Every time things get rough, he tells me he’s going to leave. He’s even packed his bags a […]

Do Husbands Regret Leaving Their Wives?

By Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who hope that one day, their husband is going to regret leaving them.  Often, these same wives will tell their husbands that leaving is a mistake that he will one day regret.  And often either the husband doesn’t buy this for a second, or any doubts that […]

How to Get Your Husband Back For Good

by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are exhausted – emotionally, spiritually, mentally – from riding the roller coaster of separation, reconciliation, and then yet another unraveling. They’ll tell me things like, “We always find our way back to each other, but it never lasts,” or “I just want to know what will […]

Ways To Get Your Husband Back

by: Leslie Cane: I would say that the vast majority of the emails and messages I receive these days come from wives who are desperately trying to figure out how to get a husband emotionally reinvested – or even to come home after a separation. Most of these women simply cannot accept that this might […]

Will My Husband Come Back To Me After His Mid Life Crisis Is Over?

By: Leslie Cane: I hear from a lot of wives who are living in uncertainty because of their husband’s midlife crisis. Many hope that this is a problem that is eventually going to pass. But having that sort of faith becomes more difficult when your husband has actually left you due to his new change […]

How Can I Convince My Husband We Can Save Our Marriage If We Work Together?

by: Leslie Cane:  I once heard from a wife who was heartbroken and scared. Her husband had recently told her that he was considering a separation because he simply couldn’t see anything changing between them. To him, they were stuck. To her, a separation felt like the first step toward a divorce she desperately didn’t […]

My Husband is Unhappy With Me and Our Marriage – How Can I Make Him Happy Again?

by: Leslie Cane: I hear from wives in this exact situation more often than you might think. Just last night, a woman wrote to me after her husband sat her down – very calmly, very matter-of-factly – and told her he “just wasn’t happy in the marriage anymore.” He didn’t offer specifics. He didn’t point […]

My Husband Wanted a Divorce But Now He Doesn’t. How Do I Proceed Since He’s Changed His Mind?

by: Leslie Cane: I recently heard from a woman who was feeling completely unmoored in her marriage. About six months earlier, her husband had announced that he wanted a divorce. He hadn’t said it out of anger. He had actually followed through — consulted an attorney, started the paperwork, and set the entire painful process […]

Tell Tale Signs That It’s The End Of a Marriage

by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from spouses who are standing at that painful crossroads – unsure if their marriage has truly reached its end or simply hit a very difficult chapter. They’ll describe their situation in heartbreaking detail and then ask the question they’re most afraid to say out loud: “Do you think my […]