Do Kids Pick Up On Your Marital Tension When Your Husband Wants Out? (And What Can We Do About It?)

By: Leslie Cane: I know that many wives are quietly worried about their kids due to the state of their marriage. Maybe their marriage has been going through a dire rough patch, and their husband has overtly checked out. There’s tons of tension – so much that you could cut it with a knife. Cold […]

My Husband Wants to Leave Me: Understanding What Situations Create Runaway Husbands And Which Tactics To Use

By: Leslie Cane: Since I often write about saving marriages, regaining the love and spark in your marriage, and restoring intimacy and closeness, I’m often asked what is the best way to react or proceed when you know that your husband wants to leave. The answer to this will greatly depend upon the situation, but […]

Will We Get Back Together? How to Make Sure the Answer is Yes

by: Leslie Cane: If you’re asking this question about your relationship or marriage, I have to assume that you’re either split up or are considering taking a break or divorce. Depending on where you are on this spectrum (and how receptive your partner, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife is to you), this process may be […]

I’m Scared To Ask My Husband If He Wants Out Of Our Marriage, But I Need To Know

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives strongly suspect that their husbands are very unhappy within their marriage and therefore likely want a separation or divorce. This is very often the elephant in the room that the wife is very afraid to even address. The wife usually very much wants to know what he’s thinking, but at […]

What is the Best Way to Save a Marriage?

by: Leslie Cane: If you’re researching this question, I’m assuming that your marriage is not on firm ground or is in trouble. I don’t know if you’re contemplating divorce, already taking a break from the relationship, or just want to improve upon what you already have. No matter which situation you’re in, I’ve found that […]

Is My Marriage Really In Trouble? Or Is My Husband Just Blowing Off Steam?

By: Leslie Cane: It is undoubtedly painful when your spouse sits you down, looks into your eyes, and tells you that they aren’t happy.  It’s unsettling when your spouse has an increasingly short fuse, making it obvious that he doesn’t think he’s living his best life or best relationship.  In these situations, it is very normal to feel […]

My Husband Wants a Divorce – Do I Have to Divorce Him?

By: Leslie Cane: I realize that there are situations where both people are completely on board and ready to move forward with a divorce. But, these are not the situations about which I’m commonly approached. Instead, I’m usually contacted by wives whose husbands have indicated that they want to divorce (and some have even filed/served […]

What to Do When Your Husband Files For Divorce, But You Want to Save the Marriage

By: Leslie Cane: From all of the comments that I get on my blog, the ones from wives whose husbands have just filed for divorce are often the most panicked.  There’s no question that being served with or being given divorce papers can cause panic, and the perception that the clock is now ticking.  Most […]

My Husband Says He Loves Me But Isn’t Happy With Me? What Does This Mean?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives whose husband is giving them conflicting messages about their marriage and his level of commitment.  Sometimes he is telling his wife that although he loves her, he is not happy with her or with the marriage. I heard from a wife who said: “the other day, my […]

Does A Separation Always Have To End With A Divorce?

I’ve spoken with wives whose husbands are either pressing for a separation or have already left the home to begin one. Many times, the wife is opposed to the idea and never wanted the separation in the first place. She often sees it as the first step toward divorce or the end of her marriage. […]