My Husband Is Emotionally Unavailable. I Think He Longer Loves Me: Tips To Get Him Invested Again

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes get emails from wives who ask me to suggest ways to get their husbands’ love back in their marriage. Usually, with a bit of prompting, I can get them to tell me that they really fear their husbands are no longer “in love” with them. This is usually just a […]

Sound Strategies to Save Your Marriage – What You Must and Must Not Do to Stop Divorce

By: Leslie Cane: If you’re reading this article, chances are you’re frantically researching how you can get your marriage back on track or save it from divorce. It doesn’t matter why. Whether you have children, know that divorce can be emotionally and financially difficult, or just believe that marriage should be forever, some steps will […]

I Don’t Want a Divorce But He Does – What Can I Do? Understand The Power Of Validation.

By: Leslie Cane: I have written many articles about preventing divorce and saving your marriage, so I suppose it is no secret that, for the most part, I believe that it is always possible to save your marriage even if your husband insists that he wants a divorce. Over the weekend, I received an email […]

Want Your Husband To Come Back Home? How A Combination Of Reverse Psychology, Self-Work, And Patience May Help.

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives asking, “How to get my husband to come back home.”  The situations described in these emails are different.  Sometimes, the couple has had a huge argument, and the husband has left the house in anger. Sometimes, the couple has been fighting for a long period of time, […]

Is My Marriage Really Over? Here’s Some Things To Consider To Help You Decide.

By: Leslie Cane: I often write about rescuing marriages.  One question that I get quite a bit is: “Is my marriage really over?  Is this really the end?” Although every case is going to be different, I can tell you right now that, even without knowing anything about you or your spouse, my first response […]

When Is It Time To Stop Trying To Save Your Marriage? It May Not Be Time If You’re Researching This Topic.

By: Leslie Cane: Since I often write about saving a marriage (even when you are the only one who wants to), I am often contacted by people (usually wives, but sometimes even husbands) who ask me “when to end a marriage.”  This is obviously quite a loaded question, but with a little follow-up, I am […]

My Husband Says He Wants a Trial Separation, But I Don’t. Tips That Might Help.

By: Leslie Cane: I’m often contacted by panicked wives who tell me that their husband is pushing for a trial separation and they want to know how to change his mind before he walks out the door.  Their thinking is that, once their husband has actually left, it’s going to be harder to get him […]

How to Make My Husband Love Me Again: I’m Scared He Won’t Ever Love Me In A Romantic Way Again

By: Leslie Cane: I often write about strengthening your marriage, returning a marriage to an intimate place, and preventing divorce.  Recently, I heard from a woman who asked me if I would share with her “how to make my husband love me again.”  Well, this is somewhat of a loaded question, but most wives in […]

Don’t Let Money Secrets Destroy Your Marriage: Why Hiding Your Financial Situation May Tear You Apart.

By: Leslie Cane: Money has always been a serious stressor to marriage (and is often listed as the number one cause of divorce.)  But, as the world economy takes a nosedive, many couples watch helplessly as their assets and savings dwindle, while others face job loss and homes in foreclosure.  Watching events like the stock […]

Can You Agree With Your Husband and Save the Marriage? Yes and No. It Should Be Part Of A Larger Strategy

By: Leslie Cane: I often write about saving your marriage and preventing divorce. One of the tips I often give is that if the husband is just not responsive to your attempts to save the marriage, has one foot out the door, and you are just not getting through to him, that you should (as […]