By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes speak with spouses (who are usually wives) who admit to me that they are “only staying married for the sake of the children.” These wives often admit that they are quite unhappy, and they worry that their lack of passion for life is going to influence or negatively affect their […]
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by: Leslie Cane: Believe it or not, I get this question quite a bit. It usually comes from wives who feel that a divorce or separation is imminent, and they do not know how they are going to survive without living together and/or being married. These wives are looking for something to stop the bleeding, […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I once spoke with a wife who said that no matter what she says or does, she can not convince her husband that their marriage can be made better or can be saved. She said in part: “I just can’t get my husband to understand and believe that if we were both […]
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By: Leslie Cane: The other day, I spoke with a very upset wife who told me that her husband had sat her down, indicated that he’d been thinking long and hard about their marriage, and had decided that she “deserved better, so he wanted a divorce.” Needless to say, she’s very confused by this. She […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I heard from a wife who told me that no matter what she did or said, she couldn’t get her husband on board when it came to their marriage. Specifically, she said: “I can’t convince my husband to work with me to improve our marriage. I’m not sure that I will be […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often write about saving marriages that many believe are irretrievably broken. Sometimes, people write to me and ask how they can tell if their spouse is changing his mind about the divorce. They want to know if certain behaviors that they are starting to see are good signs or if they […]
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by: Leslie Cane: I once spoke with a wife who told me that she and her husband were living much differently than they did when they were first married. She said they used to always be together, laughing, loving, and experiencing things together. But now, they saw each other over the breakfast table without really […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes dialogue with wives who suspect that their husband no longer wants to be in the relationship. Often, people ask me for “signs that a husband doesn’t want to be married or in the marriage anymore.” And, I often will respond with a list of danger signs to watch for, but […]
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By: Leslie Cane: The other day, I spoke with a wife who was filled with regret. To make a very long story short, she and her husband had been having problems for quite some time. They still loved each other, she thought, but the relationship had evolved into something that neither of them recognized anymore […]
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By: Leslie Cane: There is few worse feelings than being served with divorce papers when you want to save your marriage. It’s absolutely normal to feel panicked and beaten. But, it’s important to understand that it doesn’t have to be “the end.” Many marriages reconcile before the divorce is final. It’s not an impossible task, […]
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