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Saving your marriage when you’re separated can be an extremely difficult juggling act. On the one hand, you don’t want to appear so desperate and needy that you scare your spouse away, but you don’t want to back off so much that he thinks you’re letting him go, or he moves on without you because […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I often hear from very upset wives who have been told something quite upsetting by their husbands. In short, he’s typically told her that he is no longer “in love” with her because he’s either no longer attracted to her or just doesn’t find her physically appealing anymore. Wives often tell me […]

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I once spoke with a wife who told me that she knew her marriage was in real trouble.  Over the past six months, she had felt her husband become more and more distant.  He had been spending more time at work and less time with her. They hadn’t been intimate regularly, rarely had any fun, […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I once spoke with a wife who told me that her husband had firmly told her that he was “sick of” her lies and was considering a divorce. The wife had to admit that the husband was extremely justified in his frustration. In truth, the wife had lied to him early in […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I once spoke with a wife who was feeling increasingly distant from her husband. Over the past few years, she had noticed some changes in him. And, these were changes that she didn’t like all that much. She told me that her husband used to be easy-going and laid back. Today, he […]

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I’m very commonly asked how to restore a feeling of closeness in your marriage.  I once spoke with a wife who told me that she was extremely troubled because she no longer felt close to or intimate with her husband.  For a couple of years now, she’d noticed a troubling distance growing between them. Unfortunately, […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who are trying to change their husbands’ minds about the divorce. Some common comments that I hear are things like: “He wants the divorce, but I still love him and don’t want to be without him.” Or, “He’s filed for divorce. I still love him and want […]

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I often hear from people who are at a crossroads in their marriages. By the time they contact me, things usually aren’t going very well at all. Much of the time, since they don’t know what else to do, they are considering just throwing in the towel and getting a divorce. But the idea of […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are gearing up to make a last-ditch effort to save their marriages after they’ve made a huge mistake. Many times, they are looking for the perfect magical words and phrases to tell their husband how sorry they are and to reassure them that things are going […]

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