My Husband’s Anger Issues Are Destroying My Marriage: Tips And Advice That Might Help To Save Your Marriage

I sometimes hear from wives who believe that many of the problems in their marriage stem from their husbands’ anger issues. Often, the husband is very quick to lash out at or show extreme anger at the wife or their children. And sometimes, this anger comes after incidents that would seem very small or insignificant […]

I Just Don’t Feel That My Husband Loves Me

I once heard from a wife who felt strongly that her husband no longer loved her.  For the past couple of years, she had noticed a shift in her marriage.  He no longer lit up when he looked at her.  He no longer listened intently when she talked.  He no longer spontaneously touched her or […]

I Am Desperate To Get Back Together With My Husband. What Should I Do? How Do I Accomplish This?

I sometimes speak with wives whose sole purpose in life at the moment is getting their husbands back.  Sometimes, he’s left them.  Other times, he’s asked for a break or space.  Sometimes he has already filed for a divorce.  Whatever the reason for his being gone, the wives who contact me don’t want to accept […]

How To Know If Your Husband Stopped Loving You: Signs of a Husband Who is Falling Out of Love

by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes speak with women who are afraid that their husbands are “falling out of love” with them. People often ask me for signs, signals, or clues to look for that might indicate that this is true. They are trying to match the behavior that they are seeing with behaviors that might […]

I Regret Divorcing My Husband. What Now?

I recently heard from a woman who had been divorced for about eight months.   She told me that lately, she had been overcome with regret for divorcing her husband.   She missed him horribly and she didn’t enjoy being single all that much.  She had hoped the feeling would pass, but so far, it hadn’t.  In […]

Should I File For Divorce To Get Or Scare My Spouse To Recommit To The Marriage?

I once heard from a wife who had come up with a strategy that she hoped would get her husband’s attention and make him recommit to her marriage.  She was considering serving him with divorce papers in order to “scare him” into saving the marriage. She said, in part: “My husband is very noncommittal about […]

I Want My Husband Even More Now That He’s Left Me

I recently heard from a wife who wasn’t sure why she felt the way that she did. Her husband of five years had decided that he wasn’t happy being married, and he felt that he should explore life on his own to see if it would make him happier. He didn’t give the wife much […]

I Am Unwanted In My Marriage. My Husband Doesn’t Want Me Anymore – Tips and Advice That Might Help

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes dialogue with wives who confide that their husbands don’t want them anymore. This can be a loaded phrase. Sometimes, what the wife means is that the husband no longer seems to be attracted to them physically. Other times, the wife means that the husband no longer wants to be married […]

How Do I Convince My Husband To Stay With Me? I Would Do Anything To Make My Husband Stay Married.

By: Leslie Cane: I once spoke with a wife who was desperate for some sort of plan to make their husbands stay with them.  The husband had suggested a break, separation, or divorce.  This is usually the last thing that the wives who write to me want. She said, in part: “I would do absolutely […]

Should You Tell Your Husband You Want Him To Call Off The Divorce?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes speak with wives whose husbands have asked for (or have already filed for) divorce. The vast majority of them don’t want the divorce to ever go through. But they are unsure about the best way to stop it. Sometimes, while this process is still new, they’ve started to get along […]