Leslie Cane Articles

by: Leslie Cane:  It’s very common for wives to take on the blame when their husband leaves them or want a divorce.   Much of the time, there is plenty of blame to go around, and taking it all onto your own shoulders seldom does much good.  However, many wives are convinced that it was their […]

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by: Leslie Cane:  Most of the wives that I hear from are interested in one main objective – saving their marriages.   Unfortunately, most of the time, the wives are the only ones who are interested in doing this, at least at the time that they contact me.  Much of the time, the wife is fully […]

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by: Leslie Cane: Being separated from your husband is difficult enough when you have access to him and know where he is.  But it’s even more difficult when you have no idea where he is and have no access to him whatsoever.  I recently heard from a wife who was in this situation.  She had […]

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by: Leslie Cane:  I once heard from a wife who could not say enough nice and complementary things about her husband.  She slathered on the praise, saying that he was a wonderful man and a loving father.  She said he was always willing to help out around the house and that he was dependable and […]

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by: Leslie Cane:  Many of the women asking this question today remember that not so long ago,  both their husbands and themselves were very happy in their marriage.   But that mutual happiness is sometimes in stark contrast with today, when their husband is telling them that he’s just not happy anymore.   And although there are […]

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by: leslie cane:  Many wives who contact me are going through some serious turmoil within their marriage.  Some are just beginning a separation, and some have even been served with divorce papers.  Others just know that their marriage is in serious trouble.  Despite all of the drama going on in their lives, many of these […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I once had a conversation with a wife who had received divorce papers while at work. Although she knew that things weren’t going so great in her marriage, she was a little shocked that her husband had proceeded and had taken the first steps toward splitting up. The wife was not sure […]

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by: Leslie Cane: Many of the women who visit my blog can literally feel their husband or their boyfriend slipping away from them. The distance is a feeling that has become so real that you can almost touch it. I often hear things like “our relationship today is just so different. He’s cold, indifferent, and […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I once heard from a wife who was worried because she couldn’t help but notice that her husband never wanted to be alone with her anymore.  Every time they went somewhere or did anything, he would automatically invite friends or family.  This hurt her feelings, and it wasn’t doing much for their […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I recently heard from a wife who felt a great deal of anxiety about the state of her marriage.  Although no one had spoken about a separation or getting a divorce, it had become obvious to her that the marriage was on a decline.  She said that she felt as though the […]

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