Leslie Cane Articles

by: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from panicked wives whose husbands have just or recently told them that he wants a separation.  For many wives, the “s word” is often akin to proclaiming that the marriage is most definitely over, at least in her eyes.  Many people associate a separation with an eventual divorce and […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who find themselves in an unhappy marriage because their husband is just an unhappy person in general. And, it’s obviously difficult to have a happy or upbeat marriage when one spouse always seems determined to be miserable. I recently heard from a wife who said, in part: […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from wives who have been fed the “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” line that many husbands will give when they aren’t sure if they want to be married anymore.  This is a very common topic that comes up time and time again.  Many of […]

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by Leslie Cane:  It’s an awful feeling to be looking back on your marriage with negative hindsight.  Sometimes, we don’t see things clearly enough until we’re faced with actually losing them for good.  I recently heard from a wife who was experiencing this firsthand.  Her husband had left her after finally becoming tired of her […]

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by: Leslie Cane: Most of the correspondence that I get is from wives who want nothing more than to save their marriages. Often, one of the first objectives in this scenario for these wives is to get the husband on board so that they aren’t trying to save their marriages alone. And sometimes, the husband […]

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by leslie cane:  Much of the time, I hear from people who are trying to save their marriages before a divorce is final.  Often, they know that they have a finite amount of time to get their spouse back before the marriage officially and legally ends.  Many see the final divorce decree as the end […]

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by: leslie cane:  I’ll admit that most of the correspondence that I receive comes from people who are very clear on the fact that they want to save their marriage, but they aren’t sure how to do it when their spouse is resistant or has already moved out or filed for divorce.  The vast majority […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Having your husband tell you that he wants a divorce or separation is bad enough, but having him tell you that he wants to stay in your home with you throughout the process can add a lot of confusion to the mix. I recently heard from a wife whose husband had just […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I hear from so many people who tell me that they live in a loveless marriage where they are just sort of coexisting in the same house.  Much of the time, they tell me that divorce is not an option for them either because of their children or because of financial or […]

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by: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from wives who are scrambling to come up with the best course of action after their husband tells them that he wants a divorce.   Many of them are looking for a way to make their husbands either regret the decision to divorce or to see that it is the […]

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