Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane:  Many wives don’t have specifics as to when or if their husbands are coming back.  But many are still hoping that one day soon, he is going to come back and work with them to save their marriage, even though friends and family are often telling them that they are crazy or […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are still in shock that their husband has, seemingly out of the blue, announced that he wants a divorce or separation because he does not feel like an equal partner in the marriage. Sometimes, he has hinted or complained about this issue for a long time, and it has finally […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are relieved that their husbands are beginning to show a little more interest in them while they are going through a marital separation. However, as relieved as they are, these women can be unsure as to what is the best way to react to this newfound interest. Should they show […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are incredibly frustrated because their husband seems to be blaming them for all of their personal problems and their unhappiness. Often, the wife does not agree with his assessment. In fact, many wives truly believe that their presence actually makes their husband’s life better, and they very much resent their […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Because today’s economy is a tough one, I’m hearing a lot about “in-house” separations. What this means is that no one moves out of the house. The couple typically agrees to try a trial separation in which one of them moves out of the master bedroom. They give one another the space […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many people don’t know what is holding their marriage together after their children have gone or left the home. Often, they have worked very hard to stay together for the kids or have banded together to create a strong family, more for their children than for themselves. But sometimes, when those same […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many people are looking for anything that might help save their marriage or change their spouse’s mind about wanting a divorce. Some people have been helped by their pastor and church and they wonder if encouraging their spouse to come along will help to change that same spouse’s mind about the marriage […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives struggle with how to address their husbands’ lies. Sometimes, these lies have to do with very important things like money, fidelity, and the marriage itself. Other times, the lies themselves aren’t about serious or deal-breaking topics, but the fact that he continuously lies to you when he has no reason […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives want nothing more than for their separated husbands to finally come home. Usually, the couple has separated, but the husband is dragging his feet on coming up with a resolution. I am usually contacted by the wife who wants her husband to come home so that they can save the […]

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By Leslie Cane: Sometimes, people who know that they are coming up on their last chance to save their marriage have already been separated once or multiple times. Other times, their spouse has run out of patience, and he isn’t sure if he loves them or wants the marriage.  As a result, he is being […]

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