My Husband Says He No Longer Loves Me Because I Didn’t Change Enough For Him.

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from couples who admit that they were very different from one another from the start.  Often, there is an expectation that they will gradually change a little to become more like the other.  And, when this doesn’t happen there can be disappointment or even a belief that they are […]

My Marriage Is So Bad That I Don’t Know If It’s Even Worth Saving

By: Leslie Cane:  Many people almost have one foot out of the door in terms of their marriage.  Often, the only thing keeping them married is either their children or their sense of obligation and honor.  In short, many people want to honor the commitment that they made a long time ago even if honoring […]

My Husband Puts Absolutely No Effort Into Our Marriage and I’m Tired Of It

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from folks who are tired of feeling as if they are carrying their marriage entirely on their own shoulders without any help at all from their spouse. Often, this gets so old that you can begin to wonder for how much longer you are going to be able to take […]

I Don’t Think My Husband Feels Pain Or Regret About Our Separation

By: Leslie Cane:  Many wives have reluctantly agreed to a marital separation, but now regret it deeply.   Often, things are not turning out as they hoped and this is sometimes because their spouse is acting distant or cold.  The wives will often speculate or worry that the husband’s attitude is going to affect the […]

Should I Expect My Husband To Act Like My Husband While We’re Separated? Should He Act Like We’re Married?

By: Leslie Cane:  Many folks are very disappointed with the way that their spouse is treating them while they are on a trial or marital separation.  Often, they can’t help but notice that their spouse is no longer acting like a married individual. Or, it becomes increasingly clear that the couple no longer appears to […]

My Spouse Doesn’t Care About His Appearance Anymore. What Can I Do?

By: Leslie Cane: Many people feel a little bit guilty about their disappointment in their spouse.  Often, they feel quite superficial and vain for even thinking about it, much less bringing it up.  I’m talking about your spouse’s appearance.  This can be a very sticky issue for many marriages.  Because there’s a perception that it’s […]

My Husband Confessed To Feeling Attracted To Other Women. What Should I Do?

By: Leslie Cane:  Many wives feel their husbands slipping away from them for various reasons.  Some of the more common reasons is either a waning attraction to his wife or a growing attraction to someone else. Someone might explain: “our marriage has been on shaky ground for the past eight months or so.  I admit […]

My Separated Husband Never Gives Me A Straight Answer About His Feelings Toward Me, Our Marriage, Or Coming Home

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives don’t know what to think about their husband’s behavior during a marital separation.  Often, when the wife tries to get a read on how things are going or whether the husband might be thinking about coming home, she doesn’t get a straight answer.  Instead, she gets a husband who is […]

My Husband Has Changed And I No Longer Feel The Same Way About Him

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives who are concerned about the changes that they are witnessing in their husbands.  Unfortunately, these changes often affect the way that the wife feels about her husband and about her marriage. One might explain: “my husband as he is today is unrecognizable to me. He is not the man I married. […]

My Husband Says That Being Married To Me Is A Miserable Experience. What Can I Do?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who have just been hit with the hard reality that their husband is downright unhappy (or even miserable) with their marriage.  This is often a blow that they never saw coming.  And they are often confused about the best way to deal with the issue. I heard […]