My Husband Is Worried About What His Family Will Think If We Get Back Together.

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are very afraid that they are never going to be able to get back together with the husband that they still love. This can be very frustrating when you know in your heart that your husband still loves you and that your marriage might stand a […]

How Do I Get My Separated Husband To Have Sex With Me So That We Can Reconcile

By: Leslie Cane: It’s very normal for a separated wife who is still committed to her marriage to look for any advantage that she can get to give herself a chance to get her husband back.  It’s not unusual for the wife to look to sex to give her an edge.  And you can’t really […]

My Husband Moved Out. Apparently Now He Wants To Move Back In. What Now?

By: Leslie Cane: Often, after your husband moves out, you spend a lot of time thinking about whether (and when) he will return. You might even spend a decent amount of time thinking about what you can do to get him home sooner rather than later. Sometimes, this whole thing doesn’t go as you planned […]

Why Do People Tell Me My Husband Will Come Back?

By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes, I hear from wives who are confused and frustrated by well meaning reassurances that they receive when they are separated or dealing with a husband who has left them. Often, they aren’t sure if they are hearing sincere comments or if these comments are just an attempt to say anything – […]

How Do I Begin To Move On When I Still Want My Separated Husband Back So Badly

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from separated wives who are so tired of living in limbo during their separation.  Usually, they had hoped that by now the separation would have been over and that they would be working closely with their husband to save their marriage.  Often, this is not the reality.  Instead, the […]

I Think My Husband Hopes Our Separation Just Magically Ends By Itself

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are nearly desperate for a resolution to their marital separation. But for whatever reason, their spouse seems to be reluctant to come to a final decision. I heard from a wife who said: “my husband and I have been separated for about four months. I have […]

I Feel Like I’m Always Annoying My Husband During Our Trial Separation

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are getting a troubling vibe from their husbands during a marital or trial separation.  Often, the wife had expected or hoped that the husband would miss her or be receptive when she attempts to reach out to him.  Instead, the wife feels that the husband sees […]

My Husband Has No Incentive To Work Hard To Save Our Marriage Because There Is Another Woman Waiting For Him

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who feel a little hopeless because their husband doesn’t seem to have an immediate incentive for wanting to come home to save their marriage. Often, he has another relationship which he could either pick up or pursue if the marriage doesn’t work out. So while the wife […]

Why Would My Husband Not Want To Save Our Marriage If He Still Loves Me?

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who are very confused about their husband’s conflicting claims. On the one hand, their husband is acting like and saying that he still loves them. But on the other hand, he is often asking for a separation or divorce, which seems to be a huge contradiction to […]

I Thought I Wanted To Divorce My Husband But Now That He’s Not Around, I Miss Him.

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who felt sure that separating and then pursuing a divorce was the best idea. Sometimes, they firmly believe that their marriage is too far gone to save. Other times, they believe that they have fallen out of love with their spouse. But then, at some point during […]