Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who are lost on many levels during their marital separation.   Often, they are experiencing this difficult time in an empty house with more than enough free time on their hands.  And they have no idea how to fill their empty days.  Often, they intuitively know that […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Most of the time, spouses who are reluctant to separate in the first place hope that the separation is over as quickly as is possible.  Often, they fear that the longer the separation goes on, the less of a chance there is that they can save their marriage. I heard from a […]

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By: Leslie Cane: It’s not unusual for me to hear from wives who are separating but who still want to save their marriage.  Much of the time, they don’t understand how this is going to be possible when their husband doesn’t feel the same way that they do. I heard from a wife who said: […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are trying to gauge their separated husband’s feelings and attitude toward them and the marriage.  Quite often, the spouse who has been left is the spouse who wants a reconciliation the most. And, making that happen is always at the center of their thoughts.  But the […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from people who have become increasingly concerned about the content and tone of fights with their spouse.   Often, the couple has been fighting for a while, but lately, the arguments have taken on a new, sinister tone and the husband has even started to broach the subject of […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who aren’t sure how much more work they can put into their marriage. Often, they feel as if they have been working for a long and difficult time, although they have little to show for it. And many times, they are disappointed that they are not seeing […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are in the middle of a marital separation who are absolutely panicked. Sometimes, their husband has cut off most or all contact or he just isn’t acting very receptive to his wife or to the marriage. And it is at this time that you can feel […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who know that many of the issues in their marriage stem from mistakes that they have made. In short, they know that a big reason that their husband has left or insisted on a separation is because of their own actions. So, often, not only are they […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who are looking for the perfect combination of what to do or say during their marital separation in order to lure their husband back to them.  Often, the wife knows that she wants to save her marriage and work things out while the husband is not so […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are really struggling to remain positive during their marital or trial separation. Intellectually, they often know that keeping an upbeat attitude is vital to giving them the best chance of attracting their husband and saving their marriage. However, their heart doesn’t seem to want to follow […]

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