By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are looking for the perfect words to say in order to finally get through to the spouse who wants a divorce. Often, they know that this conversation is going to be a last-ditch effort, especially since they have had trouble getting through to their spouse in […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from folks who fully admit that they may need a break or separation from their spouse. But, at the same time, they aren’t yet ready to end their marriage and they are pretty sure that they don’t want a divorce. However, unfortunately, their spouse doesn’t agree. And that can […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from folks who aren’t sure how to best communicate with their spouse when they are separated. Often, they intuitively know that reaching out too much can cause their spouse to pull away. So, they are understandably afraid of coming on too strong. But they worry that their texts or […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who have become so fed up with their husband and with their marriage that they have finally had to make the reluctant choice to seek or file for a divorce. Often, this is a decision that they do not take lightly. They often see the divorce as […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from folks who are very surprised and disappointed at their spouse’s less than kind behavior when they are on a trial or marital separation. Often, they had some hope that the separation might make them miss one another and therefore bring this closer together. But, unfortunately, their spouse’s behavior […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who want to get their spouse to stop constantly asking for a separation. Much of the time, they have considered many tactics in order to help them to achieve this. One common tactic is to respond with a firm “no” and then to ignore their spouse. They […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are frustrated that their spouse is resistant to having an honest discussion about the issues that plague their marriage. Often, the motivated spouse intuitively understands that in order to work through their problems, they must first address them and then discuss them. But it can be […]
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By: Leslie Cane: In today’s economy, it’s not at all unusual for couples to continue to live together even when they are going through a marital separation. Sometimes, the couple truly hopes that the separation isn’t going to mean the end of their marriage so they continue to live together. And other times, one or […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who feel as if they are the sole participant in their marriage. They have come to believe that their spouse doesn’t care enough to be actively engaged. As a result, the marriage has deteriorated significantly and, if it was difficult to get their spouse to actively participate […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who feel as if they are having to hold back their true feelings while they are separated. Often, they can’t help but notice that when they tone down or hide their feelings, they get a better response from their spouse. So, they become used to hiding their […]
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